my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend tried to break us up, but since that didn't work, she calls him continually and he recipicates. I've talked to her and she assures me that they're just good friends. He say's the same, but it digs at me...I feel they don't have to be anything to one another. Our relationship is more than just dating, we've been in a realationship for going on 3 years and we've been living together for about a year.
2006-12-08 03:43:47 · 10 answers · asked by cmj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have the right to be concerned. but dont talk to her, talk to him he is the one who has to stop
2006-12-08 03:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to nip this in the bud. There is no reason he should be talking to her on a daily basis. He is supposed to be in a relationship with you not her. the just "good friends" to me implys a relationship even if it is not sexual. He is supposed to be "good friends" with you and not another woman. I would tell him to decide who he wants to have a relationship with you or her and to quit calling her and make him tell her to quit calling that is is putting a strain on his relationship with you. If he wont then you need to leave. This sounds like a man that will eventually cheat.
2006-12-08 03:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by angie a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a bit jealous and possessive. If he's going to dump you, cheat on you, steal from you it's going to happen sooner or later. With or without the ex.
No good news here... you need to deal with your trust issues or your jealousy will drive you apart faster than any ex's plotting.
2006-12-08 03:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by Quagmire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm friends with most of my X's. I've never tried to break any of them up... Because we are JUST friends. But I know first hand that if any of my X's girlfriends had issues with us being friends.... the girl gets dumped. Guys usually choose their friends over their girl... Girls come and go, friends last.
2006-12-08 03:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They could be just good friends. But he should respect your feelings and try not to communicate with her so often. If you have been with him for 3 years now, and you know that they just talk, you must trust him.
2006-12-08 03:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha... he's so DOING HER! You need to tell him to stop talking to her completely. Or leave him! It's not worth the drama.
2006-12-08 03:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by kisme86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it be but be catious when he goes out without you!!!!!!!!!!!! I've been through this and it didn't turn out well but you do got to give him some freedom!
2006-12-08 03:46:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your insecurity is showing, and either you learn to trust him are you loose.as it seems he is going to maintain this relationship
2006-12-08 03:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember who has the man!!
2006-12-08 03:46:19 · answer #9 · answered by Awesome girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of the *****
2006-12-08 03:46:37 · answer #10 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋