Once again I skip class today because she was there. I can't stand this feeling knowing that I don't got a chance nor do I want to be with her even if IF ((if)) if okay.. if I got the chance to. And I can't get on with my life because I don't got a life, since you people are created to be better human than me so why don't you help me out who is a piece of crap when comparing to you.
2006-12-08 03:35:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
O yeah main idea is please encourage me not to love.
2006-12-08 03:36:18 · update #1
the guy whos name I did ur women, have I ever done annything that offended you? I'm sorry if I had but can you please tell me why are you mad at me for? Did anny of my writings here offended you?
2006-12-08 04:27:18 · update #2
Assumed unrequited love... Not fun. I've experienced 'unrequited mega-crush,' (it has died down into a memory) and I'm sure my friend who asked me out experienced it as well... I'm not proud of turning him down, but I would have felt even worse if I led him on, and I think the same goes for him... The higher the false hopes you give someone, the greater and more destructive the fall.
Ummm, but you definitely have some self-esteem issues... I'm sure this situation doesn't help you, but I bet even if you weren't 'in lurrrve' with this girl (that you don't even want to be with if you had the chance), you would still feel horrible. So... I don't think saying love is horrible is solving the problem.
Humans are not perfect. And there are humans who are less than equal to a piece of crap (serial killers, rapists, etc.), but I sincerely doubt you are. You're just as good as any of us; you just don't see it yet. Heck, maybe you're better! Besides, you can't truly love someone until you love yourself... All a matter of confidence, boy.
So I'm not encouraging you to love anyone... Except yourself.
PS: Don't get all narcissistic, eh? Not unless it's either that or complete depression.
2006-12-08 03:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ah sweetz you have it all wrong... You are letting her win and showing her that she got to you and she has the last laugh... you need to Walk into that class head held high and go on with your life..... Love isn't suppose to be easy but when you get with someone it comes around when you have the right one we all have to go through alot of wrong's before we find the right.... Don't let her do this to you because in a couple more months you are going to be looking back and wondering why you even acted the way you did.... Live your life have fun because we only have one and it is short.... I never let anyone get to me over something like that because i know I am the bigger person an can sleep at night,
2006-12-08 11:41:43 · answer #2 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something whoever has implanted these negative thoughts in your head, are real cruel ba$tards and they have worked on you big time....why would you think so low of yourself?.....you are just as good as anyone else here, or out there....you were chosen from birth to be here like the rest of us you have rights like the rest of us to be happy....why are you so focused on hurt, and feeling bad?....i feel you need to seriously talk to some one about how you feel, you need to face those demons, like we all have to, and you are not crap...you are a human being who deserves love like anyone else.....please speak to someone, and don't skip class your education is so important...if you don't have that what do you have?.....start to work on yourself at this moment nothing else matters but you. Good luck, and stay strong.
2006-12-08 11:46:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is not the problem. You are afraid that u will not get her because YOU THINK THAT U ARE NOT TO HER STANDERS.
Just try not to think about her and do something else then skip class. School is more important then love. I found this out myself because I wan blinded by love and i did not do all my work and everything went down. You are probably young and if you are, there is more people and your education is more important then anything else. Just take your time and forget about love for now
2006-12-08 11:48:53 · answer #4 · answered by mexico 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please do not be so hard on yourself you are not a piece of crap and we are not better than anyone else here...The idea is to help you stop loving? We are all humans and we have feelings and emotions, for better or worse. We all feel things that we do not want to and are unpleasent., that is a part of life. That knot in your stomache or even butterflies, that is all apart of life. Have you thought about talking to a councilor?
2006-12-08 11:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by Mechelle C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't love this girl... You are just infatuated with her...
Has she shown you love? If not, then you are not in love...
All you need to do to move on is accept the fact that she does not want you. Then you need to go out with your friends and have a good time... Get out there and start dating... If you have no friends then join a on line dating website like Yahoo personals or Match...
There are other more beautiful girls out there...trust me I've proven it to myself over and over and over...
Good luck!!!
2006-12-08 11:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is alot of things, but horrible is not one of them.
Honey i have no idea what your on about and I'm not even going to try and figure it out.
All i can tell you is that what ever it is that your feeling, it isn't love.
Love is the most beautiful thing on earth.
2006-12-08 11:42:48 · answer #7 · answered by Louw D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is a great feeling to love someone the way you do .. but remember love hurts at times.. You are still young you have your whole life ahead of you .. don't let this bring u down .. good uck
2006-12-08 11:40:58 · answer #8 · answered by julia1975 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It hurts when you are in love with someone or love someone and they don't reciprocate your feelings.
2006-12-08 11:59:42 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love shouldnt make you feel horrible; its when the love is not reciprocated that makes you down.
2006-12-08 11:38:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋