2006-12-08 03:20:47 · 14 answers · asked by Emme 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I decided to throw a dinner party and introduce them. I was very happy they got along. She then started talking about how she would not be able to kiss him because she'd feel like Denise Richards. That's when I was alarmed. I asked him not to contact her, and he said, fine. I asked her and she mocked me, said I was ranting, and that I was blocking her from having a friendship (with a guy who is a character she claims to despise -which makes her either a hypocrit, a liar, or spiteful). She did other things separate from him, and I decided to end the friendship. She refuses to talk to me (because I told her it felt sneaky. Well, if what she' s doing isn't wrong, why is she mad at me??!!) I don't really care about that. I ended my friendship with her, which is shorter than my relationship w/ my boyfriend.
So, that's the basics.
2006-12-08 06:09:30 · update #1
Good thing you ended this friendship with her. I am not friends with any of my girlfriends boyfriends on more then a double date kind of level because I know how it gets every girls green eye roving. My friendship is always more important then making friends with their boyfriends and I would rather not put that strain on it. Certainly none of my friends disrespect my wishes like that either, or else they are out the door. Good thing you gave her the boot becuase you asked her not to hang out with your boyfriend and she did anyways, she was no friend of yours. She sounds like a boyfriend stealer otherwise she would have valued your wishes as a friend more, she defenatly sounds like she had ulterior motives.
2006-12-08 07:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by jennyve25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she and your boyfriend friends? Was she and your boyfriends friends before either you and he started dating or before you and she became friends? Did she use to copy you her messages? If the answer to either one of these questions is no, then I would suspect that she has foul intentions. Why does she have your boyfriends phone number to call? How do you know she visits, is it because he tells you?
Sometimes a negative situation will be staring us in the face but we'll refuse to see it out of denial. It seems like they might like each other. Just as you have to look at her actions, look at his. If he didn't like her at least a little bit, he wouldn't let her come around so often. Guys aren't going to be around a platonic friend to share jokes with, when they have a girlfriend who they can make out with. If the situation was innocent, all three of you would hang out..especially since she's your friend. I'm not saying to dump this guy and drop your friend but you definately have to keep your eyes open. Don't ignore obvious signs. If all else fails, without accusing, ask your friend why she keeps company with your boyfriend so much. The direct approach is always best.
2006-12-08 03:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by Honey 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That depends what they are talking about. I have a very close friendship with a friends husband and there is nothing other then friendship and my girlfriend knows that and has no problem with it. It's all about trust.
Hope this helps.
2006-12-08 03:30:33 · answer #3 · answered by Guppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is friends with your boyfriend as well as with you, No. But if she knows your boyfriend through you, than I would say she is being sneaky. I would keep a close eye on both of them if I were you. You need to confront her and ask whats going on. Ask him too!
2006-12-08 03:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by na5nica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Direct your anger appropriately. The person who should put a stop to it is your boyfriend. If she is being sneaky and trying to steal your man and can actually get him, then you are better off without him.
2006-12-08 03:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i does not be mad, extremely if my extremely captivating female pal had 36C's and proper hair with a hobby for AC/DC track and warm cinnamon rolls. Very jealous. Now how jealous are you in that i like canines extra then you truly? grin
2016-10-14 06:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by troesch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was she his friend before your relationship started? Have they always been just friends? If so, leave them alone. If they were in a relationship prior to you, I'd start to be concerned.
Was she your friend beforehand and now she is contacting your man with out ccing you? If so I'd put a stop to that.
2006-12-08 05:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's not right. Confront her about it and get to the bottom of it. In my opinion, it sounds really strange that she is doing that. She may have other motives. Your bf may too.
Good luck.
2006-12-08 03:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey...you better put a stop to this so called "friend" of yours because she is definately out of line to do this...and why hasnt your man put her in check? have a talk with her and set her straight then have a good talk with your boyfriend...good luck
2006-12-08 03:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the content of the calls and IMs. If they are friends, she might just be catching up with her friend, and if she's not friends with you then she obviously wouldn't send messages to you.
2006-12-08 05:18:51 · answer #10 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋