I know not all women are like this but what would you do? A woman I know asked me to give her some money. She said her family was having money problems and they needed to buy some things for the house. She said she would clean sometime for the money. At the time, I didn't have the money so I told her sorry no. I also remembered several other times I did and she never did the cleaning. She gets mad and hangs the phone up. Later I found out she was looking for money to buy a dress to go out to a dance with her boy friend that night. If she calls again shouild I even answer the phone?
2006-12-08 03:18:18 · 18 answers · asked by nellie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont give her the money, this is not your issue stop allowing her to use you. Unless you dont mind playing the fool for someone. Everyone is not to be trusted, there are many people within the world who use others to get what they want. Tell her to get a job and work for her money as most people that want things do. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-08 03:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she calls again I wouldn't answer the phone. Because you know she doesn't want the money for her family she just wants to go out and buy herself something. She probably thinks that you will just keep giving her money. Next time you see her just ignore her and ignore her phonecalls.
2006-12-08 03:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by Cassie G <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't have to answer the phone or even have somebody like this in your life. She is a user and you need to be done with her. I understand that people need help in bad times, but there are people that take advantage of their own situation.
2006-12-08 03:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by stacey h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well are you mad at her for using your money when you thought it was for her money problems she & her family were having? If you're not mad at her forgive her, and move on with your life. It's always better to give than to recieve. I don't know whether or not you believe in God, but to you, I know you just recieved a blessing.
2006-12-08 03:25:00 · answer #4 · answered by Miah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her all you got (let her have it as in give her an earfull ) let her know that you can sue her for the money and the harassmet from the constant asking . even if you dont plan to. let her know what you think and if you do give her money tell her you need a reciept for every penny if she gets mad about that then you know shes just a bum
2006-12-08 03:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by chandal r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should answer the phone and tell her how you feel about what she did to you. Be honest to her don't lie to her and just ignore her, because if you do it will make thiings worst then they are.
2006-12-08 03:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes answer and tell her off! Tell her your not her suger daddy and to stop calling you for money cause your not giving her none
2006-12-08 03:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by ((♥)) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plug out the phone line
2006-12-08 03:28:23 · answer #8 · answered by madpianist_hahaha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don´t need a friend like her. Talk with her one last time, let her explain herself but then forgett her.
2006-12-08 03:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by Ani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got it! Don't answer the phone. She is just using you.
2006-12-08 03:21:20 · answer #10 · answered by Racewalking Invicta Swami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋