I believe in taking the time to get to know a guy first. He and I've kissed and fooled around, but I was clear and up front that I wasn't going to sleep with him until I felt comfortable, why would he be upset?
(I'm college age and so is he, by the way. We're both old enough to know what's going on)
2006-12-08 03:15:12 · 4 answers · asked by Si S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DUMP HIM!
He's either very immature (throwing a tantrum because you aren't having sex) or very manipulative (hoping that by acting upset you'll have sex with him).
This man is not concerned about having truely consentual sex with you, because truely consentual sex is when you BOTH want to have it, and how you BOTH want to have it. Do not go out with a man who pressures you for sex by getting upset with you. There are GOOD men out there. Don't waste your time and energy on this one. PLEASE.
2006-12-08 03:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by steve d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he gets upset because you do not "put out" then get rid of him!! That is unless you are guilty of being a "tease" then he has every right to get upset!! You will know when the time is right for you so don't let anyone push you into sex prematurly!! If you're not being a tease and he gets upset then he has no respect for your feelings girl!! I know this sounds crazy coming from a guy but I gotta be honest!! Don't let the girl avatar fool ya -- I like being greated by a female other than a male in my mail etc!!
2006-12-08 11:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by xxx69forall 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he's upset with you because of that, you should run and run fast!! He wants ONLY sex. The fact that you told him up front you weren't going to sleep with him until you felt comfortable meant nothing to him. Next time, tell a guy that you won't sleep with him until a commitment is made (and not just a verbal commitment)......that'll weed out the losers a lot quicker.
2006-12-08 11:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's only interested in sleeping with you. He obviously doesn't care about getting to know you, that's why he's upset that you won't go the whole way.
2006-12-08 11:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by argylemoose 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋