I could not commite to her at the time, it took losing her for me to realise how i truly felt for her. She has since told me she still loves me and isn't interested in anyone else however she ca't get back into the relationship as she needs to be on her own at the moment and can't give any guarentees we'll get back together - What does this mean? Has anyone any advice?
2006-12-08 03:15:05 · 23 answers · asked by PottZ79 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You hurt her...and now she is checking this is what you truly want...If she still loves you then you probably will get back together she is just testing you.
Wait for her and everything will be ok...exactly the same thing happened with me and my boyfriend...i did the same as your ex.
give her time
2006-12-08 03:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"U know what u have until u lose it",its seems that u felt on that my friend.I think shes hurt cause u could not commite at the time, but besides that shes still interest in u, my advice DONT LET HER GO MAN!!! show her how commited u are now and be her support. Give her some time but at the same time be there for her & be the one who gives her that guarentee that everything is going to be ok now with ur actions not by word ok!. I think u can do it give it a shot & let me know ja!....take care
2006-12-08 03:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like she really like you but has been hurt by you not wanting to commit. Happened to my ex... Didn't get back with him but sometimes think about it. It's not that i don't like him but i fear he'll just deceive me again and since it's painfull i don't wanna go through that again. So she might come back if she feels strong enough and ready but she might not, while still wanting to be with you but won't to prevent herself from getting hurt once again. Depends if she's the type of girl that is able to forgive easily in some ways... Good luck with whatever happens.
2006-12-08 03:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hurt her really bad and she is just testing you to see if you truly do want her back and to commit to her and its not because you just miss her for the moment wait it out and it will all work out for you just keep showing her how much you really mean it and want her back and want to commit once she sees you mean business she'll take you back shes just afraid you'll change your mind and she'll get hurt again.
2006-12-08 03:41:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have hurt her, and she needs time to heal before she can move on? Ask yourself this question, "Do I really want her back or do I want her because I can't have her"? Please be honest about this, or you will hurt her even further if she gives you her heart and you realize that it isn't what you wanted after all. Just give her the time and breathing room she needs.
2006-12-08 03:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is hurt at the moment, maybe a breathing space will work things out. Then when u finally get back to each other, be committed! ! !.
2006-12-08 03:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello - you told her you could not commit to her all the time? and then you expect her to jump back into your arms coz it took loosing her to realise you love her?
Shes quite within her right- she needs to be sure that going back to you is the right thing to do - you obviously hurt her by admitting why you couldnt commit to her etc etc.
Give her time - woo her - send her texts just telling her you love her - you have to win her back - its not as easy as just deciding you'll have her. xx
2006-12-08 03:42:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably still thinks that you aren't ready to commit to her. Explain to her what you wrote here. That you realized how much you care about her and you don't want to lose her.
2006-12-08 03:19:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means yo need to keep trying she wants you to show her that you are ready to settle down and commit to an relationship it will work and it shows tht you dontrealise how much you want something til it has gone
hope you get beck together and remember show that you are willing to commit!!
2006-12-08 04:48:43 · answer #9 · answered by xkelx_xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we always want the person who dumped us more and more but you better move on. The specialists proved that we do it with only one thought in mind just to hurt them back once we got them again! It is all meanless!
2006-12-08 04:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋