if a guy texts you whenever hes out in town, is he chasing you?even if its not every week, just now and then?
what does it mean then if he doesnt contact you for a while after meeting up with you, but then he starts texting you again like before? why go "funny"???, and ignore your texts???
i havent slept with him, only kissed him.
2006-12-08 02:56:52 · 8 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This has been going on for a while. even when i was in my past relationship (i didnt end my relationship for this guy or cheat on my ex with this guy).
2006-12-08 03:00:59 · update #1
This guy is a player and keeps you hanging in like his little doll which he can use only when he needs or if he doesnt find anybody better.Totall ignore this guy.Its his loss,as he is the one missing out on someone special.You deserve someone better who can give you all that love and care.Drop this player.
2006-12-08 03:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Long_Luscious_Lashes - I have just come out of a short relationship that was EXACTLY like this!
I know for a fact that my ex is expecting me to text him because I always used to do it. It is his birthday soon....but he won't be hearing from me! He ended things with me and I don't intend to respond in the way he expects!
They love the thrill of the chase - once they have you, they find it a bit boring, or go "funny". It's really hard but you have to ignore him when he texts and DON'T initiate them, whatever you do. Once they start wondering what you're doing, they'll come running, but to be honest, I doubt this guy wants you for much more than a bootie call.
2006-12-08 11:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by ibizagirl_2004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had this too a lil while ago and it really confused me at first, but it was cos he was seeing other people as well and texting me in between as a stop gap. he kept saying things like he was glad i was no longer with my ex and lil things that hinted he wanted me. i got fed up in the end and started ignoring his textes, playing it all cool and he started running after me, but i decided it was too late I couldn't be bothered with the mind games sounds like your text mate is gonna be the same X
2006-12-08 11:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by caroline b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's possibly seeing other people too...which he's entitled to do, as are you, if you're not officially an item. However hard it may be, don't text him and wait for him to - that way he hasn't got chance to ignore your messages and he'll start wondering what you're up to...trust me, it works wonders.
2006-12-08 11:01:02 · answer #4 · answered by long_luscious_lashes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont sound like you mean much to him...
and he only possibly texts when bored, drunk or both!!
i think you should find yourself someone who cares about you.....
and dont answer his next text!
2006-12-08 11:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because when he's at a loose end he calls you.....just don't reply back...tell him you have met someone now and don't need him to text you any more unless you want him to....
2006-12-08 11:03:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sure hes not just texting you when hes drunk?
2006-12-08 10:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say this, but when he gets bored, he calls you. he doens't mean anything serious
2006-12-08 10:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋