me and my best friend like the same guy?

Question

well i really like this guy im just crazy abt him but i came to noe recently tht she likes him too i mean she had a crush for him on and off since the past few years but i really like him i havent told my friend that i like him coz she might feel hurt. the problem is tht she has told me tht she has seen him look at her and stare at her the problem is even i feel he stares at me and likes me.....we both are together most of the time so its hard to know who he is staring at .......some time before he had told his friends that he hated my best friend and said that she was very annoying but recently wen my friend(kiara) was looking at him he looked bak and smiled. the thing is we both feel the same way about him each one of us feel that he likes us. we cant go and ask that him .......plz dont suggest that coz thats not possible. Also kiara and him used to study in the same skul and he never used to like her thats what he told his friends but recently he is quite friendly with her

Answer 1

choose your friend because best friends last forever boyfriends don't last very long

Answer 2

dear ..u must first make sure whether he's playing between you two or not.the fact that he says sth else and still smiles back at your friend seems to suggest that he knows that you both r affected.he might be enjoying both of your attentions.
firstly try to act totally indifferent.don't show him you love him anymore.stand seperately from your friend to mark him-whether to u r ur friend.dont let ur friend know.then by different ways,only when u have convinced him that u r no more affected,try to catch his attention in a way he may never understand.and at the same time show ur friend u r interested in her relationship with him.
now since he liked u first -u have an egde and a right.but make sure he is not a diplomat who may tear apart ur friendship.
in the meantime a solution may itself unfold.but take my advice....he says to his friends what he knows will reach u.so it's not reliable.

Answer 3

Just go with the flow. I've been through that too and now my friend doesn't even like the guy anymore. He never liked her either. It'll come down to only one of you. But don't lose a friendship over it. Don't go into serious competition.

Answer 4

Look, Girl. This has even happened with me. So i am having experience. look if you she is your best friend and she likes him more than you then you let her take over. this is the only thing you can do to become a friend of HIS and HER. after all you are her best friend. you cant do anything like this to her. but if you think that you like him more than her than you tell her about how you feel about him. OK, Good luck!

Answer 5

Only time will tell hun - its up to him to make a move if you don't wanna hurt your friend. That way, she can't blame you for anything. Maybe have a talk with him, ask him if he has feeling for you of your m8. And if he does like your m8 more, your just gonna have to accept that. But be positive and hope for the best!

Answer 6

well if your too chicken to ask then i suggest you both just leave it alone you have to decide which is more important your friend or this guy. cause if you date him then she might feel a lil upset or jealous and if she date him im sure you would probably feel the same way. guys come like buses(every ten min.) but friends can last a lifetime.

Answer 7

Baby, all this happens. dond wadi - I mean dont worry. U R much better than him. If he does not directly tell u, then let him go to hell. He will regret it later. The sea is full of fishes (males included) Never worry. U will get a better person. God bless U.

Answer 8

Maybe he likes you both! However, both of you should find new crushes b/c he will end up coming between two best friends, and no guy is worth that when you are young.

Answer 9

Im sure hes down for a 3 some. Just share!

Answer 10

1st of all she is so not a pal and the guy likes u.s. forget approximately approximately ur so called chum cuz shes isn't ur chum kk.. and pay attention u no how RMC mentioned that he might of slept with ur chum will i think of she might of instructed u and if he dumped her i don't think of she might get u to unlike him so u could like him. Oh and that i think of u could communicate with ur chum tell her" i like this guy and final 365 days while u enjoyed the same guy i enable u have him so dazzling no if u have been an extremely chum u might do the same element to me" ok wish i helped.......i hate it while a pal acts so *****....properly returned wish i helped.

Answer 11

I think you should find another guy. Losing a friend over a guy is not smart. Guys come and go. Your best friend will be there forever if you don't let some guy come in between you two.