will treat them like nothing. I don't know. Maybe im crazy.
2006-12-08 02:44:28 · 18 answers · asked by Dustin Knight 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls are suspicious and think you are pathetic if you treat them like a princess for no reason. This doesn't mean be a jerk. It means you need to create opportunities for them to earn your affection, and let them know when they do something that you like. In order to pull off treating her like a princess, you have to convince her she IS a princess, and (more important) that you are a prince. If you treat her like a princess for no good reason, you come off all wrong--it looks like you are trying too hard because you really aren't that great, or that you are doing favors to get favors in return. Convince her that she is amazing, you are amazing, and that you are amazing together, and then you can buy her all the roses you want.
So many times the things that impress me about a woman are so small that she doesn't even know she did something right--so I tell her! Then she knows I like her for her.
2006-12-08 02:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. They have low self esteem and think they deserve to be treated like crap.
2. They watched the other women in their life allow the men around them to treat them like crap and think that is the only way relationships work. How many times have I heard a woman say that, "ALL men are...selfish, inconsiderate, won't do anything at home, only want sex and dinner on the table, talk down to their women, hit their women..." If you are brought up in an environment where that is all you know, you think it's normal and unavoidable.
2006-12-08 10:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by Karen L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl wants to treated like a princess but will attach themself to someone like me, who doesn't treat them like a princess, but is so bold and outspoken that my personality dominates and wins them over. Initially, the guy will appear nice and wonderful, dangerous and alluring- thus attracting the female to this A-type character. In time, the fantasy she has built and the reality clash, resulting in a guy who doesn't treat her anything like she really wants, but she is stuck in this situation- the majority of men for the most behave in a manner illfitting of a good relationship. But she is
A. used to this, either from how her own parents relationship is, experiences in junior high/high school, and unable to grow out of dating the kind of men who don't treat her well
B. Low self esteem issues and worries about attaching oneself to a guy who will treat her more specially. We all know the "jerks" types are more exciting, they are bad boys, and thus present more of a challenge to women- there is excitement in knowing such a bold person can be changed, can be molded into a gentler man. There is the hope- and with time, perhaps she will get this man to be the sort that will treat her like a princess.
Or, considering the giant amount of divorces in society, most likely not.
2006-12-08 10:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by mrjohntesh 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I don't want to be treated like a princess. I would much rather be treated as an equal. I don't want someone waiting on me all the time, doing whatever I want to be done. That **** is not attractive. If I have a man that I can run over all the time.... I don't want him. If a woman is at all independent, she would not want to be treated as a princess. If she does it is probably because she was treated that way as a child. Who knows. I don't want a man that treats me like **** either. Treat me the way you want me to treat you.
2006-12-08 10:52:04 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe they just wanted to give them a chance..and yes, woman always wanted to be treated like a princess..it makes them feel like they're worth something, and that someone cares about them
2006-12-08 10:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I ask the same think, girls sometimes just want the mean guy. But perhaps deep down inside they think they can convert him to be the soft kind guy they melt for when they watch a romantic movie.
I got lucky I found a big nice guy.
Some girls may also have no self esteem and therefor allways go for those incensitve guys. GO figure...
2006-12-08 10:53:21 · answer #6 · answered by gjmite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to be treated like a princess!
But I chose - some man I have to beg and plead for his attention!
I have had good men but things get screwed up or I don't like them cause they give me too much attention.
We are just weird.
And what makes me mad is seeing men treating women like princesses - cause I will never have that an truly deserve it!
2006-12-08 10:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mia l 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate to say this but, most people are very superficial and choose looks over compatibility. Then when the attraction starts to fade, you are only left with someone who is only partially compatible with you. This leads to many problems including treating each other with no respect.
2006-12-08 10:51:09 · answer #8 · answered by colorguy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because the guys who treats them like nothing hott and they want to look like they with as prince; most guys who would treat them like some are not so hott. Looks wins over Lavish
2006-12-08 11:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by icy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The stupid girls are the ones who want abusive guys. Trust me, you don't want them anyway.
Girls with self respect who like themselves enough not to put up with abuse are MUCH better women to be in a relationship with. The may not be as "dime a dozen" and as easliy available, but once you find one, she's worth it. Girls who are attracted to great guys are the sane ones. DON'T change, just look harder.
An old Italian saying goes:" a nice mate is hard to get, but easy to live with. A bad mate is easy to get, but hard to live with".
GREAT wisdom there.
Good luck and good for you to question this madness.
2006-12-08 10:51:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋