A girl that I am really good friends with has started to exhibit signs of liking me. A while back we discussed being more than friends and decided not to. I told her then that she was the kind of girl I could see myself with. Lately, she has started to joke about me being her boyfriend. She has begun to get jealous about any girls I talk to, and last night she was hanging all over me. In three hours, she touched my arm probably forty times, my upper leg probably ten times, touched knee-to-knee twenty times, and leaned into me for about a minute. She wanted to be friends; now what does she want to be?
2006-12-08 02:38:43 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She wants to be your girlfriend, that's for sure. If that's what you want, then go for it. If not, you need to tell her before she gets too close and you lose her friendship.
2006-12-08 02:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you start liking someone, it's almost impossible to keep your distances especially when you have the luxury to be friends. I don't know, maybe you should give it a go, sometimes peopl get suprised how compatiblae they can be after all. And well if it doesn't work out you'll both know... I mean if you are willing to give it a try. If not, she might feel really feel badly rejected and might not be able to remain friends... Talk to her, it the BEST way believe me! See what she wants now..
2006-12-08 02:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only way to know for sure is to ask her directly. Though realize this. If you two get together and dont work out. Your friendship is more than likely over. It will never be the same.
Should you two decide to move on with this endeavor, make certain it is what you really want. You may not like the consequences, though, if it doesnt work. Good luck!
2006-12-08 02:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by Chrissie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to take your relationship to the next level - i.e. dating; boyfriend - girlfriend. But if she's already exhibiting signs of jealousy - watch out! This is a sign of possessiveness you don't need. If you're really not interested in her other that as a friend, say so NOW!
2006-12-08 02:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's testing you to see what you'll do.
Wait for a bold and direct move from her. Closeness, eye contact. Then move in slowly but DO NOT complete and look for a responce, such as her moving into a receiptive position, if she responds, you move in closer, but still don't do it ALL THE WAY. Make damn sure she's not playing with your mind. Go so close for it but don't and try and get HER TO finish the job. If she finishes you committ.
The moment there is a seal or connection move yourselves into a good position and enjoy it.
2006-12-08 03:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's flirting with you for sure. You haven't said whether you like her or not--because you haven't decided. Don't let indecision kill you--you aren't getting married! You need to find a good time to kiss her is what it sounds like--she definitely gave you an invitation. You can even say 'do you want me to kiss you?' if you aren't sure (but you have to kiss her if she answers anything except 'no', she might not want to say how she feels either).
You are her boyfriend if you want to be. If you don't, let her know by backing off when she is forward.
2006-12-08 02:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear dont be too dumb...
if she wants what you have....
which probably every other guy would be ready to do...
then why the hell are you resisting.
Next time when she comes next you..
just slightly hod her hands... dont be toooo romantic but in a light mood, thentalk about some thing and make her feel special.
She wud definitely feel comfurt with you..
so ...
when this is done.
Reply to me !
2006-12-08 02:52:56 · answer #7 · answered by zubi k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be honest with her as a friend she deserves that from you. If you don't want the same as her you have to tell her, bottom line, lay it on the table (not her LOL)!! Think about how you would feel if she were not in your life any longer, wouldn't you expect the same respect from her? Good luck I hope it works out!
2006-12-08 02:43:48 · answer #8 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she does want more, but is afraid of what may become of it and losing you as a good friend, and does not want to make it outward, if you have strong feelings for her try to take it one step further it may work out. Besides the best thing in a relationship is friendship, honesty, go for it.
2006-12-08 02:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by short 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By you telling her she was the kind of girl you could see yourself with, you probably got her thinking that way about you and maybe she's trying to tell you she wants to give it a try. You need to just ask her so you don't misinterpret anything.
2006-12-08 02:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by obeyfez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is, do you like her like that too? If you do, then why don't you try dating her. It might be that she doesn't really like you like a boyfriend and a break up will occur. If you don't want to date her then tell her that you need space or something. This sounds like a stalker waiting to happen!
2006-12-08 02:41:11 · answer #11 · answered by RoRo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋