2006-12-08 02:35:49 · 16 answers · asked by gokcerkan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It wouldnt hurt but being happy start off with yourself. You wont be able to offer or love this girl when you are unhappy. You should start evaluating your life to find out what is making you unhappy that way when you meet that special one you will love her and make her happy as well. Good luck.
2006-12-08 02:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need exerise and sunlight. Try this on any given day. I know that in the world today tanning beds are taboo. So this is not an everyday thing by any means...but about once a month...go to the tanning bed. Regular bed only and only for about 6-10 minutes use lotion and just nap a little. Listen to some music you enjoy on your head phones and relax. Your not here for the tan...you are here for a little Vitiman D. In the evening, go to the gym and walk or jog for about 30 minutes with music you enjoy. Find a good size space and Stretch to music. It works best in you go to the gym alone and focus on your body. Exercise creates endorfins. They make you happy. Good Luck and I hope you have a great day.
2006-12-08 10:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by honey20_30115 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that what you think is missing in your life than maybe love is what you need, Most importantly you must sit yourself down and make a list of what makes you unhappy and what can you do for yourself to change the current situation.
I find, from personal experience, that depending on others to make you truly happy does not get to the core of the problem. nor does it solve unhappiness that comes from deeper issues.
If your unhappiness persists, there is no shame in seeking professional help so that you can get to the root of the problem and work your way up. Life is a great gift, so cheer up and do your best, Good luck!
2006-12-08 10:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well y rn't u happy?? Do you have a great career, have you been able to travel, do you join in extracurricular activities? Do you have a hobby? If you find yourself and peace within then love will find you and you might be happier but if you are not happy alone you won't be happy with someone!
2006-12-08 10:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - no person can make you happy. If you're not happy being yourself you need to find out why and do something about it. Get involved somewhere. The more you do for others the happier you will be.
2006-12-08 10:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by susie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You need to love yourself first and say things like "I AM happy," "everything is getting better for me each day". Keep saying it til you believe it and ARE happy. Only then will you FEEL love, and be able to recieve it and share it. I know you CAN do it, I did.
2006-12-08 10:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well depend how long has it been since you been with some. and you don't necessary need love first you have to be happy with your self when that happens you can a gf and the relationship can work but don't be desperate let the nature do its curse don't rush things BC if you do you won't be happy
2006-12-08 10:39:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always feel that you have to be happy with yourself to be happy with someone else. Is there a chance that you are depressed? I wish you had given more information to your question. I wish you the best.
2006-12-08 10:39:43 · answer #8 · answered by Kimberly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can tell yourself if you need love. Has anything bad happen in the past few years to you? It may be that you aren't over it yet.
2006-12-08 10:39:16 · answer #9 · answered by lill_angel_07_88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there could be many reasons for not being happy!
that doesnt mean u need love..
love could hurt u sometimes....
2006-12-08 10:45:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋