Everyone else seems to have a bf here at school... even the freshman! I'm not bad looking or anything i'm jus sooo shy with guys.
2006-12-08 02:12:35 · 33 answers · asked by Camille 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will be just fine. Don't worry about it at all. If you try to force yourself into a situation just because everyone else is doing it then it won't really work. Just be you and things will sort thenmselves out in due time.
2006-12-08 02:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is actually the best thing for you to do. Concentrate on your school work, not boys. When you have boyfriends, there will always be arguments and such from time to time it will interfere with your concentration on your school work. You don't have to do what everyone else does. If you see those young girls getting pregnant so early in their lives, would you want that too? I am proud of you. You are doing great with that. When the time is right, it will happen for you. Just continue to concentrate on school and build a great foundation for your future life. Boys can not provide that for you, only you can.
2006-12-08 02:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is. Just because most of your friends have one doesn't mean you must have one. When I was 15 I didn't have a bf, and I'm just like you, I'm not bad booking and I'm shy with guys. I was not worried about being without a bf though, because I was concentrating on my studies and other things.
2006-12-08 02:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't date anyone until I was 30 - and that's because the right one never came along .. Shortly after I met my wife I knew she was it - people in school said all kinds of hostile things, well if you don't meet anyone right for YOU dont' date anybody. It's a hard thing I know. I'm glad I never dated any of these other people because I had the right person that I just hadn't met yet. Of course she passd away and there's nothing I can do about that, but at least I had her a little while..
2006-12-08 02:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by on_the_move4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Defently! there is no need to rush into things. You will find the right one some day. And I bet that 99% of those relationships wont be there ins 5 years. I didnt have a gf until I was 18.
2006-12-08 02:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is ok to be 15 and not have a bf. Having a bf isnt everything. Concentrate on school and have fun with your girlfriends!!
2006-12-08 02:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by annette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is more that ok to not have a bf. just becuz all the other girls have one does not mean you should. be content with where you are, and who you are, and things will work themselves out . one thing I have learned is that when you are not lookin for a bf/gf, that is when you find one. So just enjoy your singleness and don't sweat it. When the right guy comes along you'll know it.
2006-12-08 02:23:10 · answer #7 · answered by lawtation777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes in fact it is better! you do not need the drama and heartbreak of teen relationships at this point in your life,keep males as friends they are allot more fun that way!~hang out have a good time but focus on your studies and school work,when you get older you will be so thankful you did!
2006-12-08 02:15:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine to not have a bf at any age. Don't worry about it. The shyness will pass and you will find a guy worth dating.
2006-12-08 02:15:40 · answer #9 · answered by zara01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yes its okay. You dont need to date until your ready and saving yourself for marriage while unpopular is still the best thing. Concentrate on your school work and let the other girls chase the boys.
2006-12-08 02:15:04 · answer #10 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋