I'v been with my gf for 2 months and I love her , now when we talk on the phone or at the end of the nite I wanna tell her this! But I'm scared, I'm scared she won't say the same back. Do I just say it?
2006-12-08 02:11:48 · 22 answers · asked by forshow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, she's probably thinking the same thing too!!
2006-12-08 02:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by Sianny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! If you are going to say it AND mean it. You should:
a) Do it in person - there is nothing worse than being told over the phone and get a "love you too babe" response rather than the "I Love You" that you would hope for.
b) Try saying it in person. If you can't manage that - then it obviously doesn't feel right. Make sure it feels right to say it.
c) Don't say it because you want someone to say it back to you. Only say it if you mean it.
When the time is right, and the scene is set, you will know what to do - just like a first kiss. And if she responds saying the same thing - all the better! If she doesn't - don't worry - she doesn't have to - just because you do - she will take it at her own pace too.
Good Luck!
2006-12-08 10:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by Kami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it... You won't know how she feels, until you say it.
I would say though... if you're going to say it... don't do it at the end of a phone conversation... Do it face to face, at the end of a date, or during a date. It'll mean alot more to her... you can also then see her reaction.
There's nothing wrong with being in love... don't be afraid to show it.
Remember, there's nothing wrong with her not saying it back. It doesn't mean that she doesn't care about you... it just means she's not ready to say "I love you"... Everyone's different when it comes to this... some people can say it in a month, others it takes a year. So if you say it... and she doesn't respond the way you hope.. just say something like "it's ok if you're not ready to say it"... that'll ease the tension, and let her know that you REALLY mean what you say. You're not trying to force your feelings on her.. just let her know what yours are, with no expectations of her feelings.
Good luck!
2006-12-08 10:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!! Just say it. If she doesnt say it back then fine. As long as you get it out there.
I don't think you should wait til the end of the night to tell her. Wait till a few minutes before you get off the phone and tell her that you love her and just wanted her to know. That way it wont put any pressure on her to say it back, but leaves it open for her to respond how she feels.
And if she doesnt say it back, don't worry, she might feel it but just be scared. I'm sure it will work out fine.
2006-12-08 10:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by iamsoboredandtired 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have only known her two months or you only been with her for two months. Two months and you say you love her already. The beginning of a relationship can be really intense. Your judgement can be clouded as you don't really know the real person yet. If you feel you have to say it then go ahead far be it from me to deny you of that. Please think it through rationally before you say it. I don't want you thinking in 6weeks time I hate her wish I had never said I love her. She will be equally hurt by this.
2006-12-08 10:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by itgirl23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi mate,
If you feel strongly for her, tell her. If she doesn't say it back, don't stress, it sometimes takes others longer to say these things or express our feelings for others.
Best to say it in person the first time, try the "I think I'm falling in love with you" line first, while looking deep in to her eyes. Melt her with your smile and hold her close.
2006-12-08 10:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you get her alone and in person when you tell her.
Best time to do it is during sex, though. If she doesn't reciprocate, you can play it off as being in the passion of the moment. If she does, all the better.
2006-12-08 10:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by spoonman419 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just say it...i'm pretty sure shes thinking the exact same thing
2006-12-08 10:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by ram_this911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep
2006-12-08 10:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it! most girls will appreciate it if you tell them rather then you hold back, trust me she love you even more if you say it to her first!!!
good luck
x
2006-12-08 11:28:48 · answer #10 · answered by betty_spaghetti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say it!! To her face though, not on the phone!!
2006-12-08 10:47:57 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋