...internet meeting....?

Question

Have you ever meet a girl/boy in the net and then meeting face to face? Was it dissappointment for you or not.....???

Answer 1

Actually I have several times in fact I met and Married my wife whom I met online , we are so very happy and been married 2 years come March 7th.<<>> I have learned like meeting people anywhere you have alot of Women that try to impress you telling you everything they think you want to hear , beware of this if it seems to good to be true it usually isn't what you will expect. On the other hand I was fresh out of a bad relationship with a Girl I lived with for 3 years meeting her initially online she was a player and everything she said about herself was a person she wished she was not at all who or what she was about that ended in disaster.Then being somewhat hurt I took a really wild turn I started talking to Asian women thinking no way would I go to Asia. Opps I was wrong again lol, after meeting my to be wife online 2 months later I was on an airplane to spend a month with her, we must have chatted 8 hours a day video chat everyday for a year after that I petitioined her a Fiancee Visa and the rest is history couldnt be happier. In person she looked even better than on Cam to me but she had already stolen my heart so what I saw was beautie from the inside out so really wouldnt have mattered , one thing did shock me very much though when first saw her, when watching her on cam at the Cafe she worked at she seemed average tall, what I didnt know is most all Filipinas are umpalumpa's, I said DANG YOUR SO SHORT? So to this day im called to reach thing's she can't haha.If a person sends you just a pic,beware might not even be the person in the pic have had that happen several times.One girl sent me this ok pic saying she was about 150 pounds I thought that cant be too bad shes 5'8" tall , she lied!!!She was a good 230, there are advantages of meeting someone online makes you take the time to really get to know them their likes and dislikes etc,,,Once you get to know a person meeting them is more exciteing than being real nervious. Anyway thats my 2 cents on the subject

Answer 2

You are the best judge in this as you're the one who talks to this man. I can't see that meeting in a public place would pose a problem, but that's down to you. At the end of the day the idea is a good one, but the reality might be a nightmare. You end up loosing your internet friend or you gain a true one. I must admit I'm sceptical for the following reasons. I was 30+ once and a twenty year old girl would have been right up my street. Remember I'm made of flesh and blood and while a chat would be on the agenda, if honest I'd have other ideas. That by the way doesn't qualify me as a pervert, just a man.

Answer 3

Me personally, I have met some girls off of the net. I probably was lucky that nothing serious happened to me. But no, I was not dissappointed when I met them. Everything they said about themselves was right. Actually, I'm talking to someone from off of the net currentlly. For advice, I would say just be safe about it. So far, it has been alright for me.

Answer 4

I was anti-myspace for a long time but wanted to comment on one of my brothers pics but needed a profile and to be a friend. So I made one and in browsing came across the profile of a guy who lived about an hour away. In his pic he was in fatigues and looking way hot so I added him as a friend, expecting to ignore the request from some random person, but he didn't, so I sent him an email telling him that I sent the request bcause I thought he was cute and replied that I was beautiful. A few weeks later we decided to meet in person. On the way there I was nervous about meeting, worried about the awkward silences, etc. But immediately it was as if we had known each other for years and there was never any awkwardness and we have been inseperable ever since! I honestly was going to back out, and am now so glad I didn't. You just have to risk disappointment, if you risk nothing, you gain nothing. Good luck!

Answer 5

I have met 2 people from online dating, and I was not dissappointed, even though they did not work out. It was an experince and I learned from each one. That is the best thing, learning about someone else and yourself, and just the experince of it.

Answer 6

I met a several guys off here and the first time was a total disaster and the second time it was great we been dating almost 3 years now. So you have your good and bad meetings.

Answer 7

even if i liked the guy a lot i don't think i could ever meet the person face to face. Its to scary to think that the person could be someone so different.

Answer 8

Yes, I met some people and majority of them were quite disappointing... But have met some that were worth meeting....So I say half and half...

Answer 9

No it was not dissapointing .and if u r going to meet it will depend on what kind of persons u and ur friend are.

Answer 10

I am in the process of meeting a girl from hong kong, ireally enjoy it, and i think i love her already.
Dont worry mate its all good : )