2006-12-08 02:04:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love, or Lovin' ?
2006-12-08 02:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of love are you looking for? Love from a family, friend, or from opposite sex and we called it "man"....
I'm going to suggest how can you find love first......
I'm going to answer about the opposite sex... it's hard to find a great guy... it will take us a lot of process...first find him,,,meet him...works for the attractions and how to feel attracted to him...then get to know him if he is for real or not or ready for a serious relationship....
there are many reasons why we can't get love....she is ready to commit but the man is not yet ready and he pull away.... the chemistry and connections dies out too soon..... luck of honest communications...you can't communicate with him what your hearts desire because you're afraid you scare him off....
there is no perfect relationship. but for me, what I did to keep my man attracted to me is I keep myself shine always... Optimistic that things will work out and enjoy the relationship with him... I have time for myself, with friends, and family when we are not together... keep your life balance...have fun and be worried free...
if ever you find him, take your time in knowing him...again have fun...man is attracted to someone who is fun to be with.... be an active listener.... know what his needs and give it to him before your needs... let him know, what are your expectations in a relationship, let's say after four months of dating... it's quite risky but it's worth it..Your future is at stake her..Let him know what you want.... like...ask him you want to continue dating with him if you shared common interest and stuff... he will stay with you if he is really serious.... Men love challenges....be unpredictable sometimes.... don't let him know every bit of what you're thinking...
Now, what you need if you can't really find love? Don't lose hope. Being in love with someone is the best thing that happened to me... I wish you the same.... The feeling is soooo good when you know someone loves you back... Don't lose hope.... Be positive and have faith... maybe it's not your time yet.... or someone has yet to come much much better if not the best.... Once again, don't lose hope...You deserve to be loved... Let yourself shine ;-)
2006-12-08 10:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by Mai L. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
focus on something else. you shouldnt need love you should love yourself. wanting to be loved is different than needing to be loved.
2006-12-08 10:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
focus your attention on bettering yourself...love will find you when you least expect it
2006-12-08 10:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by CharlotteGrace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋