Which b/f should I dump??

Question

I'm going out with two guys, both from the same place. I dont know which one I like better. Should I date "James", then one who took about a year to say yes, or "Dominick", the one my BFF likes but doesnt even know??????????????????????????????????
I'm 12 and things like this make life for me confuseing and depressing. Please help me!!

By the way, I am so not too young to have a b/f! I had my first b/f when I was like 4 years old!! We did all the stuff a 15 year old would do, but we wouldnt go " to far".

Answer 1

you're too young to be depressed. And youre too young to be a cheater already. dump them both and wait a few years til you grow up a bit. Trust me boys are nothing but trouble. You'd be better off without a boyfriend.


.....and just because you were doing stuff when you were 5 doesnt mean youre not too young for a boyfriend, you were too young then , you're too young now. Give it 5 or 6 years, you'll realize it. its common for kids to explore, that doesnt mean a 5 year old needs a boyfriend either

Answer 2

I am ur bff and i dont really want to answer this but i think that u should dump dominick not because i like him but because i have met james and hes really nice and i can tell he really likes u. dominick is probably going out with u just cuz he needed a g/f. That is my honest opinion and thats what i would do if i was u.

Answer 3

Yea I remember when I was 12, all I can say most likely situations like this will only get harder you just have to know how to deal. I would say choose who ever treats you the best you know. The one you can see yourself being with for a while. If that doesnt work, give a couple of test that could show you who to choose. If that doesnt work drop both of them, and just find another. Because if both of them find out you could be the one getting hurt in the end.

Answer 4

Honey you aint nuthing but 12 so you need to dump both of them you is too young to walking around here saying that you have 2 boyfrineds thats not a good impresson on you that makes people think that you are put your self out there at a young age so do wats right for you and followay your first mind.

Answer 5

You're too young to date in the first place and it's very childish to date two guys. Stay with the one you like most. Maybe your friend would like if you got her with Dominick.

Answer 6

As a mom, I am concerned for you to be dating at such a young age, BUT, I understand your interest in boys. You should ask yourself which boy is the best choice...who is nice and polite...which one is respectful? How old are these boys? You have many years ahead of you to date and find your life partner, so go slow and enjoy the company of a NICE guy!

Answer 7

Yo should dump both of them if you are not sure. Your only twelve there will be more to come. Dont let things like that depress you unless your really truely in love but you aint even a teenager yet so im sure it wont hurt to bad.

Answer 8

You need to make a choice fast, you can not play 2 people. Maybe you could tell them both what you feel and that there is another boy in your life. You could also just make a choice, but you are very young, so......................
The boy that is the most on your mind...that's the one....

Good luck.

Answer 9

you are way to young to even be concerned with boys, enjoy life and be a kid for as long as you possibly can! Adult problems will rear their ugly heads soon enough. Tell both boys to hit the road and focus on friends and family and most importanatly SCHOOL!

Answer 10

dannnnm
two guys at 12 years old