a girl wrote me a letter telling me that she is pregnant for my boyfriend i ask him about it he said that a lie its not like he haven't lied to me before so tell me whats your view on this
2006-12-08 01:40:07 · 17 answers · asked by shelo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You certainly have a trusting relationship. Instead of talking to your boyfriend, you are asking questions on Yahoo! Answers? If I were your boyfriend, I'd be sleeping around, too.
2006-12-08 01:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by trigam41 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's really nothing you can prove right now until the baby is born and a DNA test is performed. Then why would she try to start anything like that by saying he is the father. Very rarely a woman would lie about who is the father of her baby if she is pregnant because it will produce embarrassment on her behalf unless she is not sure who the dad is. Futhermore what if she isn't pregnant and just trying to split you two up.I think you should just wait til it plays out.
2006-12-08 01:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by i have a taste for waffles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found that with men, If their mouth is moving they are probably lying. Remember the old saying....where there's smoke there's fire. If she took the time to write you a letter either he did her really wrong in the past and she is trying to get revenge on him or it is true. You know it's probably true or you wouldn't be asking the question in the first place. You already said he's lied to you before so obviously trust is an issue between you. Dump him, if he is cheating on you, you run a bigger risk of him giving you an STD and believe me he is not worth it.
2006-12-08 01:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by PRS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is a liar and he will keep lying. Your man probably cant keep track of his own lies. He will tell a lie over top a lie and eventually bury himself in a lie. You cant trust him or believe a word he says. He may not be the person he says he is and you have to protect yourself. Get out now because you cant change this fault of his. Love is not stronger than his lies.
2016-05-23 06:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well think of it from her side. What motive does she have for lieing? does he have alot of money, does she want him back, is she known for that type of behaviour. Do you watch some late night shows? Men deny thier involvment everyday. It the woman who is carrying the child is the one who wants the father around go talk to her get your own opinion on it.
2006-12-08 01:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A paternity test will resolve the issue once the child is born. In the meantime take no chances with your health. Get yourself to a clinic for HIV/AIDS and STD testing immediately.
2006-12-08 01:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is probably a liar. Set up a meeting with both of them.
2006-12-08 01:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by redhot ツ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think he is a liar..
ok may b u try to meet with that girl..
I think it will solve the problem..
If she is pregnant then u should give him a slap..
2006-12-08 01:43:32 · answer #8 · answered by Faith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hear more about the girl's side of the story about when she got pregnant. I don't think he would hide something this big from you because if it were true then you would find out pretty quick.
2006-12-08 01:42:58 · answer #9 · answered by ellizi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the two of them face to face.you already know he is a liar, so why are you still with him?don't you know you deserve better?if he lies now he will always lie because you will believe him.
2006-12-08 01:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋