i realise that i really want to try and get over this bloke who has recently broken my heart- into tiny little pieces--everyone tells me that "time is the healer" but any ideas on what could speed up the hurt process a bit??
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2006-12-08 01:19:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get a grip over urself.
do something.get out have fun.
see people u will love it.
spend more time with ur friends
2006-12-08 01:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree that time is definately the best healer, but in the meantime u can help yourself. First u have to realize the issues that were not right in the relationship and deal with them so they don't cause u problems in the next relationship. Don't sit and think about good times with this guy, that will bring u down for sure. You need to get out there and do things that make u happy. Hang out with friends, family, do hobbies that u love. Our brains do not have the abilty to feel pain and happiness at the same time, so as long as u keep yourself busy and try to have fun you won't be sitting feeling sad.
2006-12-08 09:29:21 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah! time heals... but it's heals even better if your healing with someone else around your arm... The best way to get over a heartbreak is to create a new one... Who knows maybe the next one wont break your heart into tiny pieces.
2006-12-08 09:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by lepluver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one can never get over a broken heart. u just need a new person to fix it. the broken heart will not go away. its here to stay. but we are just waiting for somebody to come around the corner with band-aids and help put it together again. i believe it happened for a reason. learn from broken hearts. sometimes its just never meant to be. cry if u must, but just go on living life. that helps. i wish u best!
2006-12-08 09:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by Niki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Activity to move your attention from him to anything. Exercise, hobby, shopping. Time to fill up your calendar with activities.
2006-12-08 09:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cry, cry it all out until you having nothing left to cry... then, hang out with your friends, keep yourself occupied, don't give yourself time to think about him. stay away from him, and if at all possible, remember the bad times. don't give him any credit for what he did.
2006-12-08 09:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by ~karma~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the gym, or running every morning 45mins (with your ipod) and just think what a real asshole he is!
2006-12-08 09:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by Arianne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that....the best way to get OVER someone is to get UNDER someone....
chin up!! xx
2006-12-08 09:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by ReD eYe ReCoRdS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bye marrige
2006-12-08 09:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by assiassi a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋