My bestfriend and I did some things Sat night,that may have crossed the line.Yes,they were sexual,but we are both adults that wanted to go there. She's a beautiful person,and she's fine with it.The problem is it's really bugging ME now.I dont know that I regret it........I just feel...well.....different. Is it guilt? Regret? I feel a lil strange around her now.
2006-12-08 01:18:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For all the idiots,I'm a WOMAN! Some people are so mean.....
2006-12-08 01:23:41 · update #1
Maybe you should talk to her about how you're feeling. it might be the best way to get this off your shoulders.
2006-12-08 01:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by Spaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you will have to figure out for yourself. You are both consenting adults, and if friends, now the entire relationship has been changed and take to a different level. Sex and intimacy should never be taken lightly. And this is a very good example of why. The two of you are adults and you were friends before this happened, so with that in mind. The two of you need to have a serious talk. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-08 09:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are right, you are both adults so it's fine. There is obviously an awkward moment now between the two of you especially if this is the first time both of you ever have done things like this before. I'm sure the awkwardness will subside and things will go back to normal. Make sure you talk to her and let her know how you feel and she will tell you the same, so that way you both know that you are bot in the same boat. I'm sure it will work out fine. :)
2006-12-08 09:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by Julez81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's taking toll on you just because it is your bf. You two had an attachment from the get go and I guess it seems if you are afraid that the "incident" will ruin your friendship. Are feelings involved as well? It seems like it. Maybe it's a mixture of feelings right now.
2006-12-08 09:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by i have a taste for waffles 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're not feeling anything millions before you haven't felt, if it's something you regret just don't do it again because you can't change the past, if on the other hand that is where your desire lies go that way and accept who you are.
2006-12-08 09:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the problem with Going There. You can't unring the bell.
It happened, and you have to deal with the aftermath.
2006-12-08 09:19:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously out of your experiment came the conclusion that your not gay. Don't kill the frindship because of what happened. Sit down and talk about it with her and both of you can talk it through.
2006-12-08 09:20:54 · answer #7 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not like it!!! For sure... Otherwise you would not regret... be honest with yourself and her...
2006-12-08 09:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by simplegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be that you now want more from the relationship ----- talk to her find out what she thinks
2006-12-08 09:22:01 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget it and move on don't commit that mistake again
2006-12-08 09:21:10 · answer #10 · answered by *niki loves all god* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋