ok my boyfriend finished with me after 3 years -it was highly unexpected but partly prevoked by myself after petty fighting. i moved into my house and on the first day i move in-he says he doesnt love me and he wants to focuss on his career-but he still cares for me and wants to be friends he was in a state crying his eyes out when telling me he would miss me etc. a month before he was telling me how much he loves me and wants to grow old together. i thought maybe it was the whole scenario of the commitment of moving in with me. how could i win him back? he means everything and for the time we were together we were unseperable
i really want him back. do i give him some time to think? or just move on?
please help :) ??? <3
2006-12-08 01:17:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be nice, selfless and patient....
2006-12-08 01:19:41 · answer #1 · answered by simplegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got scared when you moved in together cuz it got to real for him and he chickened out. Give hi time to realize that he may have lost out on a good thing. as for yourself, concentrate on you and your bills and go out with friends and have fun, look good, and get others guys attention then that fool will want you back. But don't take him back, let him live with his decision.
2006-12-08 01:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the book "It's Called a Break-Up Cause It's Broken." I'm not saying that there isn't a way to win him back, but if he doesn't want to get back with you then there is no other way to get back with him.
2006-12-08 01:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by gweengrl89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't know what he wants right now..you should keep your head up and move on
2006-12-08 01:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! Give him time--he nneds it and just be there and be nice and be his friend. He'll come around and if not--well you tried.
2006-12-08 01:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him about your feelings and be more romantic
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2006-12-08 01:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋