help please?

Question

ok my boyfiend have a baby in a past with this cheek.i am so jeaulous that the he didnt have a baby with me frist.when we was together his babymother call it was the babybirthday. he said she just call to check on the baby and that makes me more mad and jealouse
the main point is he got a baby with another girl and i jealous. i love him and i think love me. i scared that the baby might get between us.please help me

i love the baby. i am just scared the mother might get him back because of the baby

Answer 1

this is something you have to get over nothing you can do to change the situation live with it or get out of the relationship try discussing your feelings with him sometimes just talking about can help you through it.

Answer 2

Not that you want to hear this answer, but he's a father first, and that baby should be the most important thing in his life right now.

unfortunately for you and any other girl/woman he dates, you will have to accept that fact. Relationships come and go, but he's a father for that child's life. Try to be more accepting of the baby, if he has to choose between the baby or you, you may not like his decision.


Hope everything works out

Answer 3

This is his child and he has a responsibility to it, both now and for the rest of his life. If you want a relationship with the father, you had better make room in your life and make friends with his child.

Grow up and get over the jealousy; he's with you now, and that's what matters. If he wanted to be with the baby's mother, that's where he would be.

Answer 4

get a life.. it's an innocent little baby who needs looking after. grow up fool

Answer 5

grow up