What are the give aways that a woman still has feelings for you?

Question

if she (an ex) tells me that she "thinks of you often" means they thought I was special, still feel for me or what?

how do womens minds work? lol

Answer 1

Women are complex beings.

It depends if you see each other or not.

Generally, this kind of "thinking of you often" implies thats she's still interested, but maybe in a 'she's lonely and just wants some attention' kinda way. Women can be complex like that.

Of course you are different from other men. You've already had a relationship and of course, there is always some kind of tie and history between you and your ex. It's almost like a safety blanket.

Jealousy is another good indication as well. Its horrid though.

The important thing though is to not lead this girl on. This could all mean that she may want you back AND is subtly hinting at you, the way women do when they want a man to pick up on subtle cues of behaviour and act the way they want.

My advice is...play it cool. Go with it. Reply with a "Oh that's nice of you" kinda way. It depends how you want to play it.

Answer 2

we women can't tell you how our minds work...that's top secret. if we told you, we'd have to kill you!! lol - just kidding. We can't tell you coz we don't even know really to be fair.

I've told a guy before that i still think about him, an ex, and it meant exactly that. if you spend a long time with someone they are hard to forget.

If she was smiling when she said it, then possibly she's still harbouring some feelings for you!

Answer 3

No one knows how women's minds work. If an alien race came to study us, and compared a women's thoughts to a logical human being's, all women would be seen as crazy.

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Answer 4

she will use any excuse to be in touch with you even for a row yea she probably thinks of you often. but maybe thats regrets shes thinking about or hoping you like her enough to respect her ask yourself how would you feel if you were her

Answer 5

Women throw contradicting hunches. Way too difficult to understand.
Men are simple. It either is or isn't.

Answer 6

You know her better then we do, so what do u think deep down!? And plus...ok.. so she said it.. but whatever she says has no impact unless you actually know what u think or feel about it..and thats the question?

Answer 7

Very possibly it's a hint to get back together. Or it could be concern for you e.g. if you were drinking too much - she could be just worried about you.

Answer 8

not necessarily - she could just as easily be thinking negative horrid murderous thoughts about you when she says she thinks of you often!!! Dont assume too much! xx

Answer 9

Guessing gets you nowhere. Direct question are the key.