My boyfriend had another girls e-mail address in his wallet. I got a phone call at work telling me that he talks to her, I confronted him & he denied knowing her. The e-mail address in his wallet disappeared the next day. Is he hiding something, can I ever trust him again? We've been going out for a year & I do love him, but is it over? I haven't asked him about the address disappearing yet, should I, please help!
2006-12-08 00:58:09 · 16 answers · asked by Debi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe she gave it to him and he didn't want to be rude by not taking it so he just stashed it in his wallet but when he realized you knew, he threw it away because it was not worth losing you over. just keep an eye on him for a little bit, that will tell you whether or not you can trust him.
2006-12-08 01:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by sag.grrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not fairly agree..... Building down believe is an excessively predominant hassle for me. Because as soon as believe has been shattered, the connection is ended too. So, earlier than I permit this believe being destroyed, I evaluate cautiously all parameters, all situations, all possibilities. I don't finish relationships simply in seconds. I supply credit score, I take my time. Not an excessive amount of besides!!! But, I check out... And whilst eventually I finish that there's no desire, that the man or woman isn't risk-free, I stroll out the connection without a guilt in any respect, no tough emotions. Because I recognise I have given the entire possibilities feasible and so they proved mistaken....
2016-09-03 10:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to this question and you are looking for someone else to tell you to stay because that is what you want to do. So I say stay. But me personally, I would have to leave. He is hiding things from you and lying to you. Keep in mind most people don't change. My girlfriend married a man who cheated on her while they were dating. She thought that after they got married he would be faithful. Guess what? He still cheats.
2006-12-08 01:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by sweetsexylocs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were going through his wallet then u already were suspicious. if u don't trust him u cant have a healthy relationship. talk to him. tell him how u feel, how ur worried and suspicious, but that you do love him and want to give him the chance to defend himself.
2006-12-08 01:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by Eowyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what were you looking for in your boyfriends wallet...???You should talk to him openly and tell him how you feel about your relationship....and i cant tell you that you cant trust him only because of a email that you found in his stuff...but maybe he is asking the same question to himself ...can i trust her....because eventhough you are together no one gives you the right to look through his stuff...its not good
2006-12-08 01:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by -- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really want to know, get a spy-ware program, that copies his key strokes ,e-mail, everything he does while on-line. BTW who called u at work? The girl?
2006-12-08 01:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by GreyGHost29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your worried about it so much then confront him with the issue and if your not happy with the result and still have reservations then kick him to the curb.
by the way my wife and i have many friends on line that are the same and opposite but we know where to draw the line
2006-12-08 01:01:18 · answer #7 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will never be the same between you guys... You'll still love him but you'll always have that on the back of your mind...
Just let it go.
Best of luck to you both.
2006-12-08 01:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by PaLAuSKi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he denied it is a red flag. If he told you about it would be different. I would be all over his a$$!
2006-12-08 01:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by nosycap9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....yes he lied to you ....obviously....hmmmm, not sure about the trust thing...don't think that I would be real quick to take his word on anything at this point....it's hard to really love someone and have a committed relationship if you can't trust them.....good luck
2006-12-08 01:02:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋