I want your oppinion on this.
The question is how much chances/opportunity of falling in love depends on how bright or beautifull he/she is. And on which of these features it depends more. For me from one point of biew this looks like simple question as I wouldn't be able to love a dumb girl ( dumb/smart I refer here is not the ability of being good at maths or something like that (not brain work) , but dumb/smart by the atitude, having right/wrong judging of certain things). But from the other point of view, the person you love has to be somehow beautifull for you, so you would want to take his/her hand, look deep into his/her eyes, or put your arms around him/her. And this point of view kinda troubles me, makes me wonder if I'm not too much concerned on the looks, what I think is not true. So the sub question is what to you tink about this second point of view.
Please Chose one from:
1. VB&D, A&A, NB&VS
And one from
2. VB&AS , AB&VS
S-Smart B- Beautifull D- Dumb A- Avarage
Thank you
2006-12-08 00:47:13 · 5 answers · asked by Nooto 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A&A and AB&VS. people don't have to be super pretty or super smart for you to be attracted to them. it's the overall chemistry, the vibe they put out. if they're confident it will show in the way they carry themselves and the way they behave.
2006-12-08 00:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by sag.grrrl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Falling in love" is different for everybody. The TV World says the person has to be "Knock-down gorgeous". They don't. When you are with friends they want the person to either be too dumb to make decisions or brilliant. Neither is necessary. Get to know the person. Find out what you have in common and spend time doing the things that you BOTH like to do OR spend time trying the things that they like to do. This will please them and probably you too. The more you know about one another the better chance you have in finding out whether or not you belong together. The categories that you have chosen are too WORLDLY for me. I am a Christian. Have a great holiday. Spend it with friends and family!
Eds
2006-12-08 08:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by Eds 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
VB&AS for me.
The first thing that you tend to notice about someone is their appearance.........your initial reaction is based upon their aesthetics rather than intellect.
2006-12-08 08:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i suggest that the lady you find is smart would also look beautiful to you ----- does not really answer the question but its a false premise --- that to be smart is to be unattractive and to be beautful is not smart --- why not have both???
2006-12-08 08:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A&A, AB&VS
2006-12-08 08:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋