2006-12-08 00:43:10 · 22 answers · asked by neha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
That depends on the situation. If you have known this person for a long time and both are ready to make the next step, go for it!
There are no rules when it comes to love.
2006-12-08 00:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is necessary to get engaged with the person with whom u r going to marry to know and understans. After engagement both of u well understood each other. So it is good to get engaged before marriage. Period b/w engagement and marriage not more than 4 month and not less than 1 month.
2006-12-12 01:24:06 · answer #2 · answered by Priyanka W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. Either u choose ur partner ur self or keep ur eyes closed, have faith on the God and on the fact that 'pairs are made in Heavens', and enjoy the ''surprise''. This is a hard fact that after engagement,u can just pretend to know something, actually u will be knowing only those things, which the person next to u wants u to know!!
At the other end, u may by mistake loose some good relations in the hurry of decision !
2006-12-08 10:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by gurkanji 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Neha,
Is yours an arranged marriage or love marriage. If its love than it will make no difference since you have already been with the person so you can just get married directly. If its an arranged marriage than i would say 3 mths is enough.... this of course is my personal opinion since in my case there was a 3 months gap. In that gap we spend lot of time shopping for the wedding, going for lunches and dinners, buying stuff for our house, just basically know each other.
But the truth is you cannot know a person unless you actually start living with them. Spending a few hours a day and spending a life with someone is absolutely different.
I wish you good luck.
2006-12-09 00:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good provided that the gap between the engagement and wdding is optimum. You could get to know your fiancee well and plan on strategies to build up a happy married life. But make sure that the engagement is not way before the wedding. This might cause loss of interest and there are chances that your fiance might get attracted to some one else!!!
2006-12-08 09:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by midach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
There shud always be a gap of a few months after engagement and before marriage,.
This period gives u an opportunity to know each other , understand each other's likings and dislikes,
that surely will help ur life after marriage.
As, during this period u may become good friends of each other.... and don't think there is any other best way to begin ur married life.. with a friend.!
2006-12-09 07:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by asha v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being engaged is for the purpose of planning and preparing for the wedding. The standard amount of time for an engagement is about 6 months.
2006-12-08 09:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by sweetsexylocs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an engagement should be 3 months to 2 years if more if one or other is in school.
2006-12-08 09:27:35 · answer #8 · answered by rodeogirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long engagements for a span running in to more than six months is not good. Your may lose interest or the other party may get a better partner.
2006-12-09 02:13:46 · answer #9 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi the Pre marriage period, i.e. engagement to marriage is the golden period of one's life.
It is advisable to be engaged for few months, but not more than 3-4 months
2006-12-10 01:53:10 · answer #10 · answered by AVANISH JI 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it is ok to wait a bit after being engaged to get married.
Engaged here Aug '06, getting married June '08.
2006-12-08 21:35:05 · answer #11 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋