Am I the only woman like this?

Question

I am a woman.

I am in love with a man. I enjoy the emotional interaction and support I get from him. I get all the friendship, person to person connection and relationship a woman could want...

BUT

Sexually I am attracted to women. I adore the fantasy of making love to a woman but don't have any desire to 'connect' with women like I do men.

Am I alone in this? Have you advice for me?

Answer 1

No you are not alone like this. Many men & women are bisexual in nature & they like both or I should say attracted towards both men & women equally. No problem go ahead with what ever way you like to what is necessary is your physical & mental satisfaction.

Answer 2

No, you're not alone... although most other people with this accept themselves as being bisexual. I realised I was by the time I was 14, though I didn't do anything about it til a couple of years later. Men and women have very different attributes and I find both equally exciting, but in very different ways.

Have you ever comtemplated asking your other half if he thinks three's a crowd? If the attraction is there and you want to work out where you really stand then just give it a go.

Take care

Lx

Answer 3

Sounds to me like you may have some fear of making a long term monogamous commitment.

While your attraction to women is purely physical. A fulfilling condition that provides you with physical satisfaction without the need of making a commitment.

Meanwhile, on the hetrosexual side, you may have uncertainty about how the combination of the "emotional interaction and support" along with a physical relationship, evolves into a committed relationship.

I may not have worded that right, so I hope you grasp what I am trying to say.

A fullfilling relationship with another girl does not come with strings attached. A fullfilling relationship with a boy does.

Answer 4

have you ever actually been with a woman? maybe its just the allure of the unknown. it would seem to me that another woman would best be able to understand what a woman wants and needs better than a man would. besides, women's bodies are much more attractive than men's. i think there's a difference between emotional and physical connections too. you don't necessarily have to have both with the same person, as long as everyone involved understands the rules of the game.

Answer 5

no not a lesbian. A LOT of women have this desire or fantasy. At one point or time in our life we will experience this. Generally we do not act upon it. It is okay to have feelings or to feel attracted to another woman. Any woman who says she doesn't is just lying to herself.

Answer 6

My dear,
you have reallly a sked a nice question that in recent times have strucked many minds,but i would advice that same sex life is very bad and goes against the laws of the almighty one that is God,opposite sex life is sweet that is why in the beggining God created Adam a lady to love and have kids with,let me tell you i am a man and to say the truth sex with the opposite sex is sweet and enjoyable cos we see,fondling,sucking and ******* at the end,i hope i am not spoiling you,sorry.but you need to face reality and as you love ur man positively u should allow him to mount you and forget about being attracted sexually to women while you a woman too,if i may ask you,were you a lesbian b4 you met ur man.

Answer 7

Find a woman you would like to explore these feelings of yours and include your man.If he won't be in it then he has a major problem as all men have fantasies of having two women.!

Answer 8

As a Man who has alot of female friends, I have heard this from my girl-friends... I am aware of your situation..
the answer is that you not alone. Just know that you are human and are allowed to feel however you want to feel..
you are allowed to express your feelings and emotions with whomever or whatever sex make you feel complete... YOU are not alone.....

Answer 9

Try going to a strip club full of women

Answer 10

I know several women that feel the same way as you do.