One of my best friends has a bad problem.Everytime she invites her bf over, the girl next door always seems to pop up outta no where.And when she shows up she always wants to stay and she is always flirting with her bf.At first my friend didn't think she was doing it on purpose but when it happen 3 times in a row, she knew something was up.The girl nxt door makes up these weird excuses as to why she there;She asks to borrow sugar. can I use ur phone, i locked myself out..?-any kinda phony excuse to get in her house.My best friend has tried to talk to talk to her, but she just argues back, and when she tried not answering the door, the girl next door just keeps knocking til she gets an answer.Now my best friend is gettin pissed off, which she should be, but I don't want her to beat up the girl next door.She may go to jail bcuz the girl nxt door is a minor. We need to think of another solution and talking doesnt seem to be working; not even to her parents? Any ideas?
2006-12-08 00:18:09 · 10 answers · asked by dcutegirl06 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My best friend is 19, her bf is 21, and the girl next door is 17. They all live in the same neighborhood.Just blocks away from each other
2006-12-08 00:19:28 · update #1
Suggest to your best friend that she talk to her boyfriend about it. Than the next time the girl comes around confront her in front of him. If they tease and laugh at her, it will embarrass her to death. Embarrassment at that age is a very powerful weapon. If the guy doesn't agree to do it than he may be with the wrong girl.
2006-12-08 00:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by johnny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so far your friend hasn't had any luck trying to talk to the girl next door. She's also not had any luck with talking to the girl next door's parents. If ignoring her doesn't seem to work, your friend may need to seek help from the authorities. She may want to advise the girl and her parents that if this girl doesn't stop she will call the authorities the next time she's bang on the door refusing to go away. Having her boyfriend talk to the girl with her there may work to an extent but that's what this girl next door wants. She wants the attention of your friends boyfriend. Does your friend still live with her parents? If so have her parents talk to the other girls parents and explain that they are becoming annoyed by this girl always coming next door and banging on the door for silly reasons. As far as your friend fighting this girl, that's not the solution. As you've stated your friend will get in a lot of trouble. Even if she has someone else that's a minor do it, violence isn't the answer in this situation because the first person they will look at is your friend. Best solution is to explain to the girl's parents and the girl that if she doesn't stop being a pain in the butt they will have no choice but to call the police.
2006-12-08 00:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not might want to end liking him.... it really isn't any longer incorrect to love someone. Its in common words undesirable in case you do some thing with Him at the same time as there at the same time, It sucks vast time for what i'm about to assert even with the undeniable fact that it truly is perfect. only wait and word the way it is going in the journey that they brake up search for suggestion from out of your pal and bypass for it ask him out
2016-11-24 22:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by jowers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your best friend needs to be a little more open to the possabilities of the situation here. To me that's an ideal situation to explore fantasies outside of the norm in a safe and comfortable environment. Tell your friend to losen up and let the flow take things. You may want to go over yourself too and see just what fun you could have. :-)
2006-12-08 00:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by Andy J 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They should find somewhere else to hoo up cos her house is not the best place.She should also maintain her cool so that she doesn't come out as desperate or clingy and the guy will be stuck with her forever
2006-12-08 00:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by cynnie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the girl next dor is a minor then your friend is talking to the wrong person. She needs to be talking to the girls parents.
2006-12-08 00:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend actually used to talk to my boyfriend heaps i didnt make much of it.. then she started msging him constantly and inviting him to her house n out of town, by himself, to go with her family to football games etc. but yea he never went tho .. then i started gettin suspicious but i let it go for months.. although she was my 'best friend' (yea right!) eventually i just couldnt take it anymore and my boyfriend and i told her to get lost ..as hard as it may have been it was ffor the best.. this girl sounds like trouble i advise u to tell ur friend to tell her to back off b4 its too late n things get bad.. :)
2006-12-08 00:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by tu_sweet189 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of her business.
2006-12-08 00:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think u should talk to da boyfriend...tell him to tell her to BACK OFF...dat will do da trick
2006-12-08 00:22:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
haha
2006-12-08 00:21:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋