I fell in love for the first time in my life there was no other feeling like it on earth. I felt like I died and gone to heaven, you know. Anyway the feelings I had for her was just one sided, and she chose to be with someone else. The thing is, why was I made to feel this way, if it was not meant to be. I just don’t understand why the first time I fell in love for had to be with someone how did not feel the same way. Now I feel like killing myself because my shot a true happiness has been taken from me. And I really feel sometimes other than killing myself, I feel like killing the guy that she chose to be with, because he has made my life a living hell. And I just don’t know what to do anymore has anyone been in a similar situation. If so what did you do to move on peacefully and find someone else?
2006-12-08 00:13:45 · 10 answers · asked by Scar Face 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Killing yourself or anyone else isn't going to solve anyone's problems, especially yours.. the only statement you would be making is "how stupid could he have been"
anyway, take it from someone who fell in love (I was 20) w/ someone who later on walked out while I was pregnant w/ his first-born son... not only did he walk out on me w/o any remorse, w/o ever looking back, but he walked out on someone who had no fault in whatever went wrong in our "so-called" relationship... I have cried many, many tears - had a lonely pregnancy... my son is 2 now & although I could care less if he walked out on me, I still feel the pain b/c my son is paying the price...
so you see, it could have been worse - so your heart has been broken - so has mine & I had no choice but to move on - your heart shall heal it won't be the same but it will certainly mend itself... you are not the first & certainly not the last... it's hard, I know... and no one else can take that pain away -- you sit around & think about this person, you dream of them, every song, every tv commercial, every restaurant or shopping mall - whatever you run into reminds you of the person you loved...
but to you I say this... sometimes what we think we want & desire isn't always what's meant for us & we think we'll just die if we can't have it but what you don't realize is that life is preparing you for something far better than what you wanted to have - something that will truly complete you & bring you eternal joy... so hang in there - you'll be okay! I wish you the best!!
2006-12-08 00:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by njboricua78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
'Shame man, don't kill yourself and don't kill the chap she chose ok. Then you will really be miserable sitting in a mental home [ that is if you don't succeed ] or in jail for murdering him.
I have never been in that situation but i can just imagine what it will feel like. Horrible. I feel so sorry for you. Tell you what, why not hang around with your friends, there is always someone out there looking for a partner. Every pot has a lid however skew. I wish you well and cheer-up, luckily you weren't married or had any kids [ i presume] that would have made it worse hey.
Take care:))
2006-12-08 00:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by Duisend-poot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ive felt like this.Hurting so bad that you feel like your heart is bleeding.
Well hun, im sorry you feel like this. Everyone goes through this pain. Its a part of life im afraid. But life goes on and you have to understand that there is another love out there for you. You cant see that now, you cant ever comprehend being with another person right now, but its true. Time is a healer.
2006-12-08 00:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Minnie Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a pop at him will not solve anything. You will in time get over this and find someone who will share your feelings. I know it's blunt mate but put it down to experience. Be patient and good will come your way. Killing yourself over someone is NOT worth it.
2006-12-08 00:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by evs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's very hard been there. You got to look at it differently. She's not the one. If she was she would still be there with you. Someone will come along and you will be much happier. Time will help hang in there. Don't do anything to hurt yourself or others,it's not worth it
2006-12-08 00:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by reeree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone in there lifetime has felt like this but its not worth killing yourself, it will soon past and you will find someone who feels the same way as you. Hope you feel better soonies x
2006-12-08 00:17:35 · answer #6 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theres someone out there fopr everybody and when you find the right one, you'll know what real love feels like.
I know right now, you think, you'll never feel better but you'll see. it will happen all in good time.
:)
2006-12-08 00:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by PinkPrincess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at some point in our lives we all get dumped on...it's part of the process...yes it's cruel but it's a lesson in life so next time you meet someone and fall in love you will be aware of this and try to prevent it happening again....
2006-12-08 00:27:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in th same situation dont let it ruin your life just be patient and stay true to her prove to her u love her more then her man trust me shell see it in time
2006-12-08 00:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by bhitta122389 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sadly it happens to everyone at some point in their lives....
just be brave and move on....
good luck
2006-12-08 00:21:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋