hey ppl,..plz help me! i'm wondering how i will keep up the conversation with my guy, ..i mean only a phone one... but all the same,,i'm reallly quite nervous as to how i will keep talking and still appear cool,clever and smart without being too boasty.
plz dont say that 'be urself' coz that how i should be...but i'm asking u all tht what to talk about
ps: i have no interest in cinemas and the like
so plz help me!
2006-12-07 23:22:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
speak less hear more.....bring those topic that interests him.....hav some casual talks....keep praising him, but for those talks which deserves to be praised.....gud luck
2006-12-08 01:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, that's pretty much all you can do, is be yourself. and don't worry about what you sound like cause if he truly likes you, he won't care. usually, when i'm talking to my boyfriend, who lives half a country away, i tell him about my day and things like that. that's usually for if you two live really far away. if you live really close, still talk about your day but also ask about his. he'll like the fact that you care enough to worry about his day. i do that every day before even describing my day cause it tends to be long and my boyfriend appreciates it. that's all the advice i really can tell you other than be yourself which you already know. just don't worry about appearance. he should be happy with who you truly are and not want you to be someone else.
2006-12-08 07:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by mike_dirnt_2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk about anything, and if you dont have much to talk about , then thats fine too.
The main thing is, You wont sound boasty as long as you allow him to talk about what he wants, and as long as your listening to him and he is listening to you.
Just talk about your day.
Trust me, as time goes by, someday you will run out of things to say, but thats not a bad sign, Our lives just are boring some days so we dont have much to say.
2006-12-08 07:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about family, friends, career, it might make you feel kinda weird but at least he knows that you're trying to strike up a conversation with him. you can also say "i'm sorry, i don't know what to say anymore," wait! that won't help...
2006-12-08 07:28:45 · answer #4 · answered by piercedgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its nothing great abt talking to ur guy 4 yrs.Its just u shd talk abt u & his feeling,thoughts & his imagination abt ur relation...
i.e.wat vill b the final results of ur talks,it will b just talk or anything more then that.,,.....
like luv,getting enga., or getting marry bla.bla....bla....
njoy talking
2006-12-08 07:33:29 · answer #5 · answered by anuj009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about alll the things in the world except abt urself................u will appear cool also and he will be much more interested in knowing u in person!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!it really works
2006-12-08 07:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by benzmyfav 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about what ever u and ur bf likes
2006-12-08 09:08:02 · answer #7 · answered by *niki loves all god* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋