i am a good person but
i cant remove being bullied from my head
and a time where no on clapped for me when i got a cirtificate because they didn't expect i'll stand up very fast in the first?
Help plzzzz
2006-12-07 22:58:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
you cannot beat past experience neither changed then.why because the nervous systen progress forward we take the past with us. what you can do now is built a future upon what you have been through.you must accept that fact that you were bullied love youself and forgive yourself for all that you are.start loving and forgiving people who hurt and bullied you.do not practice to please people are expect people to applaud you or you will lived a weak dilusioned life believed in yourself you only need one good friend in your corner, just be you no matter what people think
counsellor_james@yahoo.com
2006-12-08 02:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by counsellor_james 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 18:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lizzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certain events in our lives can not only leave a very deep emotional wound but, worse, the memory of them increases in significance over time instead of diminishing.
The good news is that there ARE now extremely quick and successful ways of taking the crippling emotional bite out of certain memories and freeing you from their obsessive grip.
Hypnosis and EMDR are two of the currently available methods. What's important is to find reliable, serious, licensed practitioners --- and you should see results within a few sessions, sometimes even just one.
Don't be hard on yourself because you can't "snap out of it" like some people will tell you is all it takes. We are all wired a little bit differently, and more sensitive types are bound to suffer again and again over the memory of an event already in the past.
Please, at least, look into these alternative therapies. (start with an online research --- www.emdr.com for example) I wish you well.
2006-12-08 06:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by starlight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the one living in the earth, You have given a big chance to think on who am i? What can i do? & Can't?
Dont worry, Go on & on ........................the whole world will clap to you, only if you believe in yourself! Why should you think & worry about the view of others?
Live for yourself, not for others! Be happy
Good Luck!!!!!!
2006-12-07 23:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by The one whom you are waiting.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop dwelling on it. The past, is the past, you can't change it, so look forward to the future.
2006-12-07 23:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by rustybones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋