2006-12-07 22:42:07 · 27 answers · asked by mins2531 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I think most people think about a past relationship..and we like to remember that this person was perfect when in fact they werent...you will stop thinking about her when you are truly in love yourself.
2006-12-07 22:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand ur feelings, but now she is married. So if u really love him then u never wants that for ur sake she now go with any trouble in her new married life. If it is right, if u really wants good for her then keep a distance from her now. Now she settled in another world so never do any thing that she comes to in trouble if she ur ex girl friend or whatever ur relation with her.
Be bold, Go with ur work, settle ur mind & life busy that's why have no time to remember her.
wish u all the best.
2006-12-07 22:58:31 · answer #2 · answered by care 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a hard thing to let go of the past. I know about that. I was with a man for almost 5 years. Ultimately, he didn't have the guts to stand up to his family and marry me, despite racial issues. So, I left and eventually got married myself. I'm very happy now, but I wonder sometimes about my ex. He was my best friend, and now we can never be like that again. It's a very sad thing when things don't work out. But I honestly believe, just from looking at my personal situation, that things work out for the best. My ex and I would have constantly been at odds because his family had trouble accepting me. That would have eventually caused issues with our kids, even! Can you imagine! So, let yourself be sad for a bit, but then go hang out with some good friends. Go to the gym and take care of yourself. Love yourself first, and then that special someone will be able to love you also. If you find yourself longing for that girl in your past, think about the things you're thankful DIDN'T happen. It helps to realize why sometimes. That song that says something about thanking God for unanswered prayers really applies. Best wishes to you, and every hope for happiness!
2006-12-07 22:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by kryssyshell80 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u hvnt mentioned abt the cause as to why did she marry someone else....maybe she cheated u and didnt hv the guts to accept ur luv in front of her parents...if thats d case then lemme tell u she didnt deserve u in d first place...i hv often found gurls like this who want to find true love and when they find it eventually they dnt hv d guts to accept it n marry him....hv been thro it .......so wait for sometime to pass by ...n try to forget her...make urself a better man if u think u also committed any mistakes in that relation...next time when u meet someone else try not to make that mistake again and keep everything before her n ur parents so this time the second girl doesnt have a chance 2 cheat u.....cz ur families wld be knowing everything.....god bless ya...take care...n if u still feel bad a frn here is always waitin to talk 2u...jst mail me yaa......
2006-12-07 22:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by rajdebrain 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Curse her whenever you remember her. She got married! Dude you are the looser and she likes the fact that you have that thing for her.
Asap, get out there, hang with the buddies, get busy, do lots of things, change you life and make you own rules and try to connect with someone. You know can meet another girl better and willing to do things to u and for you and all that sort of things. Dont be short - sighted!
But u got to get busy!
2006-12-07 22:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by Gabriel N 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Check at first whether she is married. If yes then forget her that's the way to help her. If not propose to her and enjoy your life with her.
All the best.
2006-12-07 22:47:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TIME HEALS EVERY SORE.
Go get some short of engagement like in ur jobe,study or hobby. Don't try to forget her, this is an automatic process!!!
2006-12-08 02:26:20 · answer #7 · answered by gurkanji 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time is the best healer frnd, take ur time and move on. may be she is not the one for you, wait and be optimistic that some one will soon fill that empty space in ur heart.
truely agreed that its difficult to forget a loved one. all you can do is cherish the good time you spent with her and move on. life doent end with one relationship. good luck
2006-12-07 22:58:59 · answer #8 · answered by Pranks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you have to accept now that you must pass like ships in the night. Put her memory down to a sweet memory, a first love. Move on for her sake if you do love her, so she can give her marriage a chance. And move on for your sake, for you have a lot of love to give and there will be someone so deserving of that love that you can give it to and should
2006-12-08 10:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to join some hobby class and keep yourself busy. Never ever look back in life always move on.
2006-12-07 22:44:28 · answer #10 · answered by archana3k1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋