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Well.... im 14 and a frshman in highschool...and i still don't know how to flirt..and i like a girl, but i think i should flirt with her to let her know I like her ... but here's the thing. I DON:T KNOW HOW! :(

2006-12-07 22:34:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

cuz....i like a grl who i fence with and i wanna take her to semi formal soo....

2006-12-10 02:37:12 · update #1

10 answers

I don't try to be the center of attention all the time. I make eye contact with the person I like. Smile. And look away. That is the cue to them that I am interested. And because I am not climbing all over them, it makes me seem more mysterious and they get curious about me. Good luck. Bet u r cute. :)

2006-12-07 22:37:34 · answer #1 · answered by Isis 7 · 1 0

Welcome to the adult world young man, enjoy. Flirting like any other skill takes practice. And not every girl will respond to the same things. Some girls will lap up a line others will find corny. The key is to be yourself, if something sound naff to you, it will sound naff to the kind of girls you will get on with as well. The most powerful flirting tool is honest, a genuine smile when you see her goes a long way. What do you like about her, her smile, her eyes, her laugh, just tell her. Most people respond well to sincerity.

Most girls like a guy who makes them laugh. But be wary if it's at the expense of other people or animals. If you can laugh at yourself (though not so much it makes her doubt you confidence) that's always useful.

And don't worry if you get it wrong, you are very young and like I say, it takes practice. It can be a lot of fun too. I addicted to flirting I'm afraid, been doing it for 30 years, can't resist it, I'm fab at it, though I do say so myself, even now I have frighteningly good results. Though as a happily married woman, flirting is as far as it goes these days.

2006-12-07 22:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0 0

Think about the last time a girl flirted with you and how it made you feel. You need to make her feel the same way.
Do you watch animal documentaries on Discovery Channel? See how they do their mating dances to attract the opposite sex? Flirting is kinda like that for humans. Develop your own flirting style.
That's the best analogy that I could come up with, bud.

2006-12-07 22:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well...this question is just so u know..opened..
Coz for different people (with different attitude) its a different approach which is suitable for them to flirt..

okay..say ur the shy type (but not nerdy):

You look at her and smile .. give a bit of Nod and give her a note saying.. " i think your beautiful"...

Say your a talkative person (sorta cool/normal kid):

You see her walking by, u approach her straight up..and say hi..
if she does not respond, you say ur name and tell her u like her..
if she walks on..u say to her .. ur beautiful.. can i know u?
and smile..

If your nerdy...

u tell her straight up approach her and say hi and ask her if shes in any of ur classes.. then ask her if she cld help u learn a certain thing..

Its complicated man..i cant explain everyting..aahaha..

anyway,those are snippits of em..good luck man...

2006-12-07 22:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

There's not really a certain way to flirt! But just walk up to her with a smile on you face and tell her you like her hair or what she's wearing. Just be yourself!! To do something really cute, write her a note and say I like you, your cute! Trust me I loved getting notes like that from guys!
BEST OF LUCK TO YOU!!

2006-12-07 22:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

by grinding my teeth whilst making a bat impression

2006-12-07 22:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I flirt very well, thank you... And it isn't something you can teach, it is something you are born with...

2006-12-07 22:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0 0

Winking.. direct eye-contact...
Looking at her as if you want her right there and then...

2006-12-07 22:36:32 · answer #8 · answered by silvs 5 · 1 0

tell her you like her clothes,hair style,perfume..ask what movies she likes

2006-12-07 22:35:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I don't.

2006-12-07 22:36:40 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0 0

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