Since the 2/3 days I suggested were not good for them, I gave them an open invitation.[A FULL yr. ago} Also, my 13yo daughter and 10yo son and I moved in the Nov. right befor that Dec., so they still haven't seen our new home. I said, when we moved, that this home was my dream come true for the location, style of home, and decor being beautiful & new. This yr. both of my kids rec'd their b'day cards late. [1 by wks. & 1 by mths.} Sis is 12yr yngr. than I & she & mom are so judgmntl & gossipy. Mom called this yr to tell me how great it was to visit with all the relatives from out West and England that came here, to Canada. I was told this after E1 had gone back home! Same when Grandpa passed & E1 was at the funeral home 2 hrs. b4 I even knew the visit time! For 5yr C'mas Day is me & my well mannered/fun kids. Mom & Dad[not called me,ever] have sis & brother in. 0 chld sup=0 car 4 now.I have a que in culture& re: info / moving to a diff. prov. Pls. look & ans if u can TY!
2006-12-07 22:23:47 · 8 answers · asked by Vicki~Funmom 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Forgiveness is the greatest gift that you can give them, and this is a gift that you can give every day. Try to keep in close contact with your family and maybe they will get the message. Ask them if there is anything that you have done for which you need their forgiveness and then ask for it. Receive in love whatever answers they give you. Do not make an issue out of anything that they say. if they get abusive, then quietly take it.
2006-12-07 22:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by Preacher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had the worst time understanding the situation from your grammar/spelling. It doesn't matter who did what when, she's your mom and should always be welcome in your house, unless she's severely wronged you or abused you in some way. I'd suggest sending the presents from the year before and some for this year, and then let that be it until she comes to visit or you hear from her. If she doesn't want to be a part of yours or your children's lives then she's got noone to blame but herself for missing out.
2006-12-08 01:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would be the bigger person and yes send them Christmas cards. They don"t have to say Mom or sis, just buy generic X-mas cards. That should be good enough, but send the cards.
Merry Christmas to you and your children. I am glad you got the house you always wanted. Excellent achievement.
2006-12-07 22:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i comprehend the suited answer to that situation in case you do not have sparkling inner most files above you're deal with bar then hit useful, shift, delete at the same time. that could want to do the trick! tell her that you're literally unlikely on undesirable factors of interest and that she might want to believe you because its in contact in persons.
2016-11-30 07:43:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may i suggest you re-card the gifts from last year and sent them to them. if you don't get anything in return, maybe next year you can skip all the bother and live happily with yourself buy using the money on something you wish they had sent you.
2006-12-08 06:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by joey7638 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You go visit them. Give them the gifts of yesteryear and your love. Family is family. Tough break.
2006-12-07 22:28:21 · answer #6 · answered by blackprezz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you didn't go visit your mom for 5 yrs? That's bad.
2006-12-08 02:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christmas spirit.. It's not about what's right and what's wrong.. it's just a nice thing to do.. It's the thought that matters.. even if they don't seem to care about you.. it's about showing who you are.. your spirit..
2006-12-07 22:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by LokoLobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋