Need you advise please!
Seeing this guy and all week he has been saying that he is gonna come round tonight and watch a film. He went and got wasted last night and he has text me to say he might come round but he ain't sure as he is hanging so might get an early night! This is not the first time that he has done this. When we are together everything is fine but when i don;t see him its wierd.
Is he giving me the brush off?
Also we are going to a party tomorrow night, so will see him then.
Am i being stupid by being annoyed with him?
Thanks
2006-12-07 22:20:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, we are neighbours and have been mates for about 3 years, liked each other for about 1 year and got together about 2 months ago, so we have the same group of mates. Does this make any difference?
2006-12-07 22:55:22 · update #1
sounds like he's using you as a back up plan
don't bother with the w@nker
2006-12-07 22:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by weizy_26 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This ones a toughy. Sounds like he is giving you the brush off but he could be telling the truth. I know if I have a hangover, the night after I feel like an early night. I would go with the flow and see what happens. If it turns out he doesn't want you, its his loss not yours. And don't show you are annoyed with him as I made this mistake in the early stages of a relationship and he accused me of being possessive. Immature boys hey!!
2006-12-07 22:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by Amy_Lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your being played girl you need to end this now before you get hurt hes not worth it if hes going to mess you about everybody likes spending time with there friends but if he says hes coming over then he should have enough respect to keep to his word theres better out there im sure you'll find someone better!
2006-12-07 22:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by keevy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the guy a break. he has to enjoy time with his friends as well as his girlfriend. Ok - so he had to much to drink with they boys last night and has got a hangover. It happens, don't read too much in it.
2006-12-07 22:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't want to be with a guy who doesn't appreciate being with you ... else you deserve to be used ....tell him clearly not to act smart and ask him not to call you back since YOU are the one who is not interested ..and it would be nice to go to the party tomorrow night with some other friends ...go but don't act like angry....enjoy your time as if he is not existed
2006-12-07 22:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by Silent tear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself a man that cares and is true to his word.
You deserve better.
This man sounds like a no hoper who prefers a drink to the love of a good woman........ ditch him !!!
2006-12-07 22:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by Byte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be annoyed too
go to the party nd try not to be with him the whole time talk to other people instead just act like ur not interested.
xx
2006-12-07 22:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the first 2 answerers
2006-12-07 22:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by mehboobahmad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it this way, we all have minimum standards we require from other people. You obviously expect higher standards otherwise you wouldnt be annoyed with him. Don't sell yourself short.
2006-12-07 22:31:26 · answer #9 · answered by rattyfraggs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes just let him go he is give you the brush off
2006-12-07 22:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋