I am having a very difficult time at work. As a security we door greeters were instructed to check outgoing bags ( lunch and purchases)There is a fellow employee who thinks I have it in for her. She has been making things hard for me. I am so intimidated by her. I am afriad to go to work.
I haven't talked to/about her since the day before thanksgiving. I have to work friday....and I wish I could be anywhere else but there w/ her. PLease Help me ........
No mean answers....I get plenty of mean from her
2006-12-07 21:51:54 · 16 answers · asked by MayberryNR5 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Sorry, I won't waste time asking some invisible dude to help you out. However, I would strongly suggest that you try speaking with your supervisor. If this woman is truely making you feel uncomfortable or afraid to be in the workplace, your superiors need to know about it ASAP.
Without knowledge of the problem, there is nothing they can do about the situation. What she is doing may not be a fire-able offence, but your supervisor will be able to schedule you both at different times.
-SD-
2006-12-07 22:08:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
There is forgiveness that needs to transpire between you and your co worker. It gets quite confusing when this difference between humans occurs.. You sound sensitive and caring, but you need to be able to see that other people have senses of intimidation and issues going on in their lives. Forgive Affirmed Spirit is a religion of sharing and welcoming others to share with you so that you feel like you belong. Deep down most people mean no harm. But they test all sensitivity. They tinker with it. If you are a person of denial skills, you can just let it roll off your back. You may not be this way. If you are not this way, you will have to play the other cards which are far more difficult in the short term but which in the long term make you a far more satisfying individual unto yourself at least. You need to express yourself possibly, connecting your feelings of the present with feelings and events of the past with this or other confidants. Assertive training, active listenning, empathy, sympathy and affirmation are amongst the skills in healing a broken relationship. I wish you well.
2006-12-08 06:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO the unexpected!!!!!
When you go in on Friday act as if everything is NORMAL. Say Good Morning to her, smile (even if you don't feel like it) No matter what she does try to act like it doesn't bother you.
Do not let her know that she intimidates you, this only adds fire to her fuel.
She sounds like a bully and the best way to beat a bully is with kindness.
If this doesn't improve in the next couple of weeks I would suggest talking to your boss about what to do. ( it seems pretty obvious you can't talk to her, OR CAN YOU????)
Yes, I will pray for you and hope all turns out well.
2006-12-08 06:02:55 · answer #3 · answered by Penny Mae 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May the Lord be with you! Do not be disturb in anything.
Make it your ambition to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business and to work with your hands, just as we told you, so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent on anybody.
1 Thessalonians 4:11,12 NIV
God Bless!
2006-12-08 06:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by picturesque 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask Jesus to go before you. Go to work with confidence. You're an overcomer in Christ. Memorize these verses and stand strong in Gods Word.
2Tim1:7
7 For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.
1John4:4
4 You are of God, little children, and have overcome them, because He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world.
I pray Father that you pour Your peace beyond understanding upon Mayberry in Jesus Name!
2006-12-08 06:08:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man, how can u be a doormat? prayers will help if u help urself first. In the eman time maybe request for a shift change when u may not have to face the lady or changet he department/jobs if suitable openings exist
2006-12-08 05:57:25 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I pray that God gives you strength and courage to overcome this intimidation by this person that causes you fear. I pray that you have a good day with and that you have Him by your side.
(Be kind, and just ignore this person if they get rude to you, don't let your joy be ruined.)
2006-12-08 07:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control her behavior, you can only control your own. If your responsibility involves doing the job you are paid to do, you must do it. Her reaction to it is her problem.
Sometimes it takes courage to do what you know is right, but God is right there with you during this trial, and He allows stuff like this to grow and stretch us, for our own good.
Do right, do right, do right, till the stars fall....do right.
The prayer is spoken.
2006-12-08 06:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by nancy jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE'S MUCH WORK TO BE DONE OUT IN THE WORLD MOVE ON AND DON'T BECOME A PART OF THEIR EVIL WORLD.I KNOW YOU LOVE THEM AND THAT'S WHY YOU ARE SCARED OF THEM ,FIND PEOPLE WORTHY OF YOUR LOVE THAT EXPECT IT AND ALL WILL BE FINE.
2006-12-08 05:59:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Lord Jesus, you see the heart of this person. You know his/her needs, and You the situation he/she is in. I bind these powers of darkness seeking to cause hurt and strife in Jesus Name. Lord, please lay Your hand of love and grace upon this person. Help him/her to cope with all situations and help him/her to bow the knee before Your face.
Dear Lord, you see how Satan tries to hurt those who believe in You through others. Please touch this person's tongue with the wisdom of the Holy Spirit and give him/her strength and courage.
Amen.
"He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world."
Take courage friend, Jesus loves you.
2006-12-08 05:57:33 · answer #10 · answered by ccc4jesus 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋