ok my boyfriend finished with me after 3 years -it was highly unexpected but partly prevoked by myself after petty fighting. i moved into my house and on the first day i move in-he says he doesnt love me and he wants to focuss on his career-but he still cares for me and wants to be friends. a month before he was telling me how much he loves me and wants to grow old together. i thought maybe it was the whole scenario of the commitment of moving in with me. how could i win him back? he means everything and for the time we were together we were unseperable
i really want him back. do i give him some time to think? or just move on?
please help :) ??? <3
2006-12-07 21:39:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on!!
2006-12-07 21:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by Feeling new @ 42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is tricky, you want him back but you cant show him you desperate for him, look at it as you cool with him, dont expect him to come running back to you expect the worse, 3 years is a long time love doesnt turn off in one day he might be confused or scared to commit, just give him room, and dont force it on him coz it might back fire, hope the best for you gurl
2006-12-07 21:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best way is to give him a chance and at the same time observe him pretty well, in ordewr to see his sinscerity,
i believe that if he really intend to gat u back, he will do anything, so put him some challenge, i mean u r not going to 'surrender' easily, take some time to observe, u will find the truth.
ok?
hope it helps
2006-12-07 21:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by grehart_mirrus4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He is probably "exploring other options" if you know what I mean. If you wait around for him he may find someone else and you will be alone and more hurt than you are now.
2006-12-07 21:41:01 · answer #4 · answered by strmch8sr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do my friend is that you all have to discuss what is the reason for breaking up the relationship and dont force him cause its gonna hurt you more and if he disagree just pretend you dont care and keep your feelings to your self very soon if he realy loves you he will turn back to you
2006-12-07 21:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honey you just have to move on with out him could if he dint love you that you cant win him back sorry but that the way thing are
2006-12-07 21:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-18 09:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
patience try to be more sweet to your x-bf send him sweet notes or text im sure its hard to win a heart back but if you try to smile to him every time you see him i know one day the sleeping feeling for you will wake again and will knock asking you to come back again to his life....main word "patience"
2006-12-07 21:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him back. Do something out of the blue. something totally romantic. or give him something he just cant say no to.
2006-12-07 21:42:20 · answer #9 · answered by lucinda_mackenzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋