I have a 2 year old female cat who I'm worried about. I got a new kitten in July, but the two of them didn't really get on, so last week I found a new home for the kitten. Since then, my cat has been distant and her behaviour is now really worrying me. She is lethargic, won't come to me, is not eating properly and is just not herself. She groans when I pick her up, but I don't think she's in pain, as she seems happy for me to hold and stroke her. I don't know what to do! Is it worth a visit to the vets? Please help!
2006-12-07 21:38:42 · 19 answers · asked by kerrywba 1 in Pets ➔ Cats
While it is possible the cat is missing the kitten, it is best that you take her to the vet immediately. She could be depressed - all animals do experience loss when parted from a housemate, but she could also be sick. Your best bet is to make an appointment to see the vet immediately to ensure she isn't sick. As a note, cats purr even when they are sick or in pain so that wonderful contented purr she has may not be speaking the truth of how she really is.
Please take care of her. I just had to put down my beloved 11 year old Tabby (a male) and it is a horrible experience.
2006-12-07 22:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Pea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like separation Anxiety. Even though a cat doesn't appear to be getting on with another cat, they become used to each other and do enjoy having the company. To suddenly get a new companion can be upsetting for a cat, especially when its a kitten but after a while, the cat accepts the new companion and becomes accustomed to it. Then for that companion to just disappear again can upset the cat. Cats like things to stay the same. Move one piece of furniture, they really don't like it. This applies to new members of family as well.
2006-12-07 21:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by Amy_Lou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would take her for a check up at the vet. We had a problem with one of our cats last year. Lethargic and off his food. The vet gave him an x-ray and then operated and found coins in his stomach! The vet had never seen this before in a cat so it is possible she has swallowed something.
2006-12-07 21:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by ANON 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your kitty is seeking attention as it feels it has been betrayed. It is very difficult to introduce new cats to your existing cats, they are too jealous. I had a cat that was superb with the docs, did not matter hoe many dogs I brought home. Once I brought a kitten home - it took some time for us to see the symptoms - my cat developed "anorexia". The moment he ate he would vomit it out and my vet said it was anorexia. We only discovered the reason MONTHS after I got the new kitty. SO be careful, cats are definitely NOT like dogs!! So, give your kitty extra love and attention and talk to it. cats love talking!!
2006-12-07 23:10:30 · answer #4 · answered by Kuschke 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she realises how lonely she is. But, worth a visit to the vets, cos normally squeaking a bit when you pick them up could be due to a pain of some kind. Make sure you examine her carefully for any injuries, and also look for ticks, she could have tickbite fever which is common. Check her paws and claws for any damage to show a fight - but if it were my cat I'd take her for a quick check. If it's emotional pick up a big bag of juicy cat treats and give her lots of love.
2006-12-07 21:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by Rhythm * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cats always sort out their differences when left to do so. Your cat is missing the kitten. When the kitten first arrived your cat wanted to show the kitten who the boss is. This is natural as cats are very territorial.
Once they have established who the boss is, they will get on fine with each other. Find her another kitten and try not to interfere with them sorting out their differences.
2006-12-07 21:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by The Alchemist 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
by the time you % out a replace on your cat's habit the cat has been in misery for quite a at the same time as. No thanks to inform what's incorrect of route, vomiting is a symptom of many stuff, accessible poisoning. The diagnosis needs to made by the veterinarian. To do? bypass outdoors and get the cat into the abode. Take the cat in to the veterinarian ASAP.
2016-11-24 22:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a mother has a baby, its a complete life change and takes a bit of getting used to. Maybe the cat was warming to the kitten, and now she is longing for the kittens companionship.
2006-12-07 21:55:00 · answer #8 · answered by gerard mcmanus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The distance and being off her food don't suggest seperation anxiety, anxiety makes animals anxious. She would be searching for the kitten if she missed it.
Being off her food and grunting when you pick her up mean she needs to see a vet, fast.
2006-12-08 02:50:00 · answer #9 · answered by sarah c 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get the kitten back for a day as it will be just starting to settle in its new home only get it back if you intend to keep it.
Why not ask for a vets advice over the phone..?
2006-12-07 21:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋