bin dating my girl friend for a year now. her problem is, shes full of fake promises.we hardly see each other but live in the same area, im indipendent, she lives with the parents. she cant came to my place "saying" she does not trust herself any thing can happen. im 25 shes 18yrs.i feel she loves me not, so i wana QUIT!!
2006-12-07 21:33:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to ask yourself if she is worth it. If she can't trust herself maybe yall should just go to public places and have a fun night on the town. Of maybe you should just move on and find somebody else who is independent as you, and prob wouldn't put you through all the pain your in now. But she is 18 and your 25, now you know the risks for being someone not probably not ready for a serious realtionship.
2006-12-07 21:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a big enough difference between 18 and 25 that its not a surprise you aren't on the same page about this matter. If you were, say, 40 and 46, the six years wouldn't mean much; but at your age they can mean quite a bit.
She probably feels if you love her you will understand her preference not to go to your place. The fact that she's willing to put her foot down on this matter shows she is quite independent herself, doesn't it.
You are a little on the old side for her, so why not have an amicable split and agree to stay friends. You're using the word, "love". If she's like a lot of sensible girls of 18 she's thinking "dinner and a movie" or "Italian food at the nice little place downtown".
2006-12-08 05:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've got an adult body but an infantile mind and until she matures, if she does, get out now. Ask yourself this, do you want to spend the rest of your life with her or, do you just want a quick lay. Get out Pal..
2006-12-08 05:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make some distance from her...and eventually get out of the relationship as u yourself not convinced with this relation.
2006-12-08 05:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by Deez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her feelings. If she doesn't want to yet, don't! And if you can't respect that, then you guys maybe aren't right for eachother.
2006-12-08 05:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by jee! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur girl isnt ready for making love yet and she`s avoiding it.
2006-12-08 05:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by lara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt want the physical stuff, and if u cant respect that...she is only eighteen ,i think she oughta dump u!!!!
2006-12-08 05:35:57 · answer #7 · answered by El-rene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋