2006-12-07 21:32:30 · 20 answers · asked by amu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Amu,
Ask him to control his temper and become more romantic. Tell him life is too short to waste his time on getting angry instead ask him to learn to love.
Good Luck
2006-12-07 21:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not getting an impression that the problem has anything to do with you. I'm going to suggest that you two see the doctor on campus together. Your role is to describe his apparent moodiness -- then you should step out while the doctor does an exam and your bf talks to him. I suspect -- only SUSPECT -- that the pressure is getting to your bf, and triggering some stress-related depression. If so, this can easily be treated with a very mild medicine (I'm thinking of one that begins with a C -- the medicines today are ten times better than they were only a decade ago). Your bf will need to see a doctor who specializes in emotional difficulties (because only real doctors can prescribe medicine) -- that kind of doctor is called a psychiatrist. Your bf almost certainly ISN'T crazy -- just under too much pressure.
2016-03-13 04:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a man who is not short tempered and will pamper you romantically.
2006-12-07 21:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by strmch8sr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need therapy for him. Or maybe he is just not mature yet to handle a relationship. Be careful. Short temper is a baaad sign.
2006-12-07 21:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try changing him. He is what he is. If he has a short temper with you, it could be because you annoy him.
2006-12-07 21:34:49 · answer #5 · answered by Ian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a question for you; why do you insist on dating a man who you think you can and need to change instead of trying to find that perfect guy who needs NO changing? He is out there, if you'll be patient.
2006-12-07 21:34:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't, he has to change himself, but don't expect him to. All I can suggest is to tell him when he is in a good mood. The important point is you have to deal with it now, not later on, because he have got conditioned to believing it is acceptable, which it isn't.
2006-12-07 21:38:56 · answer #7 · answered by Bad bus driving wolf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can go to any book store, and look for books written by gregory j.p. godek, he is known as the voice of romance, he has appeared on oprah and donahue, he writes books called 10,000 ways to say i love you, or 1001 ways to be romantic, these types of books just give examples of how to do sweet things for your sweetie, also you might look into some self help books for him about his temper........good luck
2006-12-08 04:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by geeter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is short tempered just lose him..he is not worth.......
short tempered mean he does not love you he commands you...
shot temper CANNOT BE CURED.....
find a guy who loves you.....
if you cannot lose him..talk him about this matter be serious...there might be complications in future if you dont solve this now itself....
2006-12-07 22:03:04 · answer #9 · answered by anvesh reddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but you cant change your bf so either live with it or get a new one.
2006-12-07 21:44:20 · answer #10 · answered by cargo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋