your relationship is wrong and theres is so perfect. i had an argument with my boyfriend last night an di was telling my friend and she made out how awful it was becuase we called each other a few names. we made up later on and both apologised and even laughed about it. but why do people make you feel like there relatioship is so much better than what you have got !!! i am so annoyed
2006-12-07 21:22:43 · 11 answers · asked by Pebbles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as you know the truth....what do you care? Take no notice!
2006-12-07 21:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, I had the same problem with my friends. Things with my boyfriend are great now but initially when we got together, we had a few problems and argued a lot. When I told my friends they would really judge, so much so that they actually thought I was mad when we made up or got back together. So now, if we ever have an argument, I don't tell my friends about it. After all, its no-one else's business anyway is it? At the end of the day, people don't understand your relationship and they don't know anything about it other than what you tell them. If your friend has to make you feel bad about your relationship, she's probably insecure in her own and is using your problems to make herself feel better about her relationship. No-one relationship is perfect anyway, no matter what they say!
2006-12-07 21:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If others are negative about your relationship, it is likely that they are insecure in their own relationship. It is an unfortunate part of human nature to make themselves feel better by making others feel worse by comparison.
This does of course entail a degree of self delusion. Nobody is perfectly happy and even if they do enjoy deleriously happy moments...they are moments and not continuous.
Healthy relationships are so much more meaningful than allegedly happy ones. A relationship that can survive the stresses of arguments is a healthy one.
Don't allow yourself to be sucked in to someone elses delusion!
2006-12-07 21:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are just trying to prove that their relationship is perfect when there are probably some issues there.
no couple never argues. you can't possibly spend so much time witha person and get on all the time if you are being really true to yourself. anyone who says otherwise is a liar. don't worry about daft arguements sounds to me like you have a perfectly normal and healthy relationship.
Jem x
2006-12-07 21:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jemma A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fights are just apart of the relationship. A relationship is based on just between you two, you don't need to take any crap from your friend.
2006-12-07 21:25:56 · answer #5 · answered by Bao-wow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone in a relationship thinks its the best ever, well if they are happy anyway.
2006-12-07 21:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by ANTJOHN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when you tell someone about it, you have to expect some feedback. Now stop whining and go play nicely.
2006-12-07 21:25:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone hides something, so don't worry, you just carry on makeing your relationship work, good luck
2006-12-07 21:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some people like to make people feel like that
2006-12-07 21:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by Jordan P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its life
2006-12-07 22:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋