doesnt he like me anymore?

Question

ive liked a guy in work who was shy/quiet and i thought he liked me back by things he did showing an interest,remembering things, making feel better when i was stressed lending his dvds,replying to my emails with interest but the thing is new girls have started and they are full on in his face and other guys faces you know heavy makeup, midriff showing and i just feel that he is starting to like them more than me as he says hello to them and not me,iniates convo with them which he never with me even though i have made an effort to talk to him. Im kind of sad the way hes treating me i dont know whether hes adapting to their loud personalities as they flirt like mad and hes just quiet with me or what. Me and him also have a tension of awkwardness/uncomfortable when we talk sometimes so dont know why we have that

Answer 1

Send him on his way

Answer 2

Hey there - I think some space is in order. You don't need fancy tricks (midriff showing, loud personality, lots of makeup) to lure a guy. And frankly, if this is how he rolls, then aren't you glad you know now? Also, depending on whether he's a young lad or not, he could be using them to make you jealous?? I wouldn't chase him - but try and keep friendly (ie remove the awkwardness) - you know, how's your weekend; what's on for tonight...all the while keeping busy yourself. I wonder why he hasn't asked you out...but then again, a wise person once told me "don't get your meat where you get your bread" ie don't shag the workster!! x

Answer 3

The thing about guys that you have to understand...they get a thrill out of the chase. If you put too much effort into chasing him, he's going to loose interest. What you need to do is give him some space, talk to other guys you are interested in, make it seem like you're not interested....trust me, he'll start paying more attention, especially if he sees he has competition. GOOD LUCK GIRLIE!

Answer 4

I think he is changing. He is looking at fresh meat. Don't act like the other girls just act like urself. When everything dies down he will remember u and those girls won't have a chance. If it gets too hectaic for u take him to the movies or something. Just have fun and enjoy urself.

Answer 5

I think maybe he likes you but was/is unsure of the situation ,so he is flirting with these other girls to make you sit up and take notice.I would;t advise to become like them,just make sure you remain friendly and more importantly be yourself,he will come to you if he wants to take things further

Answer 6

Guys can be nice to girls they work with without wanting to bend them over the photocopier and giving them a good hard shagging while no-one is around....
I suggest you just bite the bullet and ask him to go for a drink with you and see what he says....
Dating work colleagues is always going to be hard as if you get rejected you may feel unable to work around them and the possibility of office gossip is potentially devastating......

Personally I would never ever date anyone I worked with.....As it could get nasty....

Answer 7

he likes you a lot and he doesnt want these other women so he finds it easier to talk to them etc..
ask him out for a drink and tell him how you feel....you might need to make the first move....he probably thinks that u only like him as a friend and nothing more....be forward but not totally in his face...

Answer 8

Blank him and move on, he obviously prefers the trollop look!

Answer 9

He's a man love lol, don't take it to heart xx

Answer 10

i donno what to tell ya ..just hope u feel better..