2006-12-07 21:03:16 · 12 answers · asked by Wat Da Hell 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think we should allow society to dictate age restrictions in relationships. There is a 21 year age gap between my boyfriend and I (I'm 27). I have never been happier in my life. Just like with any relationship, it needs to have the essentials like trust, understanding, communication, interests, goals, etc. If those elements are in place, then nothing else matters. Love is the greatest feeling in the world, and age shouldn't stop anyone from experiencing it.
2006-12-08 03:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Crazy-N-Luv 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am 36 dating a 50 yr old man. He is a wonderful lover, kind, fun, healthy, energetic, can't say enough about how terrific he is! As long as you go into this with your eyes open, great! Keep in mind, in a couple of decades, you may be dealing with big issues in health and other physical areas. If it is just a fling, FINE!!!!!! Who cares about age then?
Also consider (though this may sound funny, it can matter!) your tastes in music and other entertainment will probably be VERY different as well as your energy level. Do you want children? Are you willing to be Grandma to his grandkids at a very young age? Just stay realistic!
2006-12-07 21:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by lovely-to-be-me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if both partners are 21 and over,then the age doesnt matter,as long as the love is there,the only time your gonna have real problems an conflicts is when one partner isnt atleast 18,or the legal age from whereever you are from.i see nothing wrong with a 50yr old man and a 30yr old women getting with each other,lol i was 20 and i was going out with someone close to 30,i had no problem,the age diffrence isnt as big as your question,but personally i saw no problems with my own personal relationship
2006-12-07 21:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF THE AGE IS THE ONLY THING THAT BOTHERS YOU, THEN CONGRATULATIONS! YOU HAVE NO PROBLEMS AT ALL! WHEN IT IS ABOUT REAL FEELINGS , AGE DOESN'T MATTER! AGE DIFFERENCE SHOULD NOT BE A FACTOR IN THE LOVE BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE. MY HUSBAND IS 29 YEARS OLDER THAN ME! I AM 26, HE IS 55 AND WE BOTH NEVER BEEN HAPPIER!
2006-12-07 21:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why shouldn't you get involved? If she doesn't have a problem with the age factor why should you?
2006-12-07 21:09:05 · answer #5 · answered by Sandra W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if the old man still looking young
2006-12-07 21:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by Aurley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not? At 30 she should be old enough and mature enough for an adult relationship. There is no question of morality here.
2006-12-07 21:05:54 · answer #7 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not age is only a number.
2006-12-07 21:43:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if you are a Gold digger.
2006-12-07 21:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by popo dean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's "legal age", so go for it if you're both happy.
2006-12-07 21:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋