when i met that gal we became friends she helped me in studies i also helped her . she was sharing everything with me ,her happines,saddness and meanwhile my friends started teasing me that i am in luv am i really in luv
2006-12-07 20:43:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Knowing if you love her involves some serious soul searching.
Instructions
•STEP 1: Clarify what love is for you. Write down all your thoughts and feelings about what a loving relationship would be like for you.
•STEP 2: Distinguish between love and lust or infatuation. Lust is an intense sexual desire. Infatuation refers to the initial stage of a relationship, when you are "crazy" about her, but this feeling usually fades over time.
•STEP 3: Ask other people how they define love or know if they love someone.
•STEP 4: Write down how you do feel about her. For example: you enjoy her company, have similar interests, feel safe, trust her, think she is attractive, etc.
•STEP 5: Think about how well the two of you relate to each other. For example: How well do you communicate with each other? How do you deal with conflict? Do you bring out good or bad parts of each other? Can you show different sides of yourself?
•STEP 6: Ask yourself if you see and accept her as a whole person. Love isn't just loving the parts of her you like, but choosing to love her overall.
Tips & Warnings
•The infatuation phase of a relationship typically lasts about six months. You may think you are in love and she is perfect for you. It often takes more time to tell if you are truly compatible and whether you can really love the whole person, good and bad.
•Read The Art of Loving and other books about love. Wise people have been writing about it for hundreds of years. In our bookstore, look under psychology, spirituality or philosophy.
2006-12-07 20:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel butterflies in the pit of your stomach, if all u can do is think of this girl and dream about her. If it seems like you cant go on with out her then you are in love or a stalker..
2006-12-07 21:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by msdetdiva313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she dissapears from your life tomorrow, how would you feel? If you can't imagine your life without her then your are in love. But don't rush in making decision whether you are in love or not, just take the time, be with her and time will show it.
2006-12-07 20:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, & how old are you? it looks as if you may be too young when it comes to all that stuff. don't get bothered by your friends teasing you, just stay friends with her for now...
2006-12-07 21:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt mean that you are in love, you and that girl just caring each other. If you wanna know that you're in love, you must feel something special on that girl.
2006-12-07 20:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by Kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might be love is an un-define-able term if you think that you are in love then be happy its a good thing but if not then w/e but don't dwell on the subject for a long time think about it if you are in love tell her so
2006-12-07 20:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by korakikio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a beautiful women asks you out tomorrow and you say no then you are in love.
2006-12-07 20:45:59 · answer #7 · answered by meanpromqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I donow either . I think u know the answer ur self
2006-12-07 20:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by mommy2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u think u r?? well, u can't lie to ur feelings. love is something pure and great. if u love her, tell her.
2006-12-07 20:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by Hamdi93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to ask then I'd say your not
2006-12-07 20:47:30 · answer #10 · answered by Shar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋