he would just mess around and tease me and when i would get mad, he said "you know i'm just flirting with you." he's 22 and im 18. do you think there's something? he just broke up with his girlfriend of 4 years.
2006-12-07 20:31:51 · 7 answers · asked by jane 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Helllo! You like him! and it shows!
Next time he flirts with you don't get mad. Give him an opening. Let him see that you enjoy what he does-because I know you do!
There should be something and he is probably wating for that big break from you. So why not give it.
2006-12-07 20:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by wolfass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best - just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs.
Behavior
Instructions
•STEP 1: Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question. Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
•STEP 2: Is this person "accidentally" running into you in places where he or she knows you will be, such as at your desk? At the Laundromat on Tuesdays? At your brother's birthday party?
•STEP 3: Make a note if he or she mentions future plans to spend time with you: "That band is coming to town soon. We should really get tickets."
•STEP 4: Spend time alone together. Canceling other plans in order to be with you longer, or not finding excuses to leave, could be a sign of interest.
•STEP 5: Has he been calling for random reasons, such as, "I was wondering if you knew what that pizza place down the street is called," followed by, "Are you hungry?"
•STEP 6: Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he is interested in something - and it's probably not your stamp collection.
•STEP 7: Observe how the person acts around your friends - he might be extra friendly to your closest pals for a reason.
Body Language
Instructions
•STEP 1: Sometimes seeing someone you have a crush on results in telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you look at him or her? His sympathetic nervous system is probably going into overdrive. Does he have trouble speaking, using jumbled words when talking to you?
•STEP 2: See if the person in question mirrors your motions: When you lean back, he or she leans back; when you put your elbows on the table, he does the same.
•STEP 3: Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position - that is, facing you with arms uncrossed.
•STEP 4: Does he she move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as with a pat of your hand or a touch of your cheek?
•STEP 5: Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away, energetic speech coupled with open hands, and flashing palms.
•STEP 6: Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
2006-12-08 04:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much more clearer do you need it. He told you he was flirting with you, and that usually means that he appreciates a sign from you to let him know what you think of that. When guys flirt, it means they like ya. This guy told you straight out that he flirting. What more do you want?
2006-12-08 04:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by Katsika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he just wants in you pants
2006-12-08 04:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by cuddydman 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
does he have to tell you that? i hope you don't fall for him. he seems to be interested only with getting inside your pants.
2006-12-08 04:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-08 04:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh DUH
2006-12-08 04:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by korakikio 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋