I really need advice on how to deal with the mother n law from hell she is upset b/c i married her baby boy?

Answer 1

I know from my experience that isn't always the case. Look at their relationship. If you married a mommas boy then you probably should have run for the hills. Your life is now hers... But if he doesn't get along with her then you should be okay, as long as you set firm limits with his agreement. He HAS to agree with you or it wont work.

Answer 2

hi there the mother from hell problem ......been there and they really do try and make it as hard as possible and all because we married there sons ......how in there eyes didnt really want that to happen ........CRAP !!!! mothers like these should open there eyes and smell the coffee there sons did the porposel and the mother in laws to be where fine about the build up to the wedding ....but now ......what i id dwith my mother in law was said why did you come to the wedding if you are that against me and youre son being married and why are you in the wedding photos oh dont get me wrong but it caued as bit of a row but it soon sorted its self out .....just remember if she wants grandchildren you have to carry them .....she cant cope as youre now husband is with you and is not running around after her as much any more ... i wouls sit down with youre husband and have a chat with him ......and suggest to him what ive said and you never know he might agree with you that this advice is used at her .......it will settle down they always do esp when they see that they cant get in between yopu and youre husband as it should be good luck and take care xx

Answer 3

Wow this is hard,I know from experience,but the one thing to remember isyou have more say so now then she does.You are his wife.I remember my m.n law telling me how to do everything,and nothing I did was right.Eventually things got better.I stayed strong,never back down! if you do ,she will feed on that weakness,Try to always be respectful,especially in her house.Thank her for her advice.However,if she is nasty and disrespectful to you in your house,then you have every right to say something.I hope your husband is behind you in this and not a mommas boy.Those are very hard to get to break away from the aapron strings,but it's possible!Have confidence,love your man and everything will work itself out in time.In the mean time SMILE

Answer 4

You need to first sit down and have a long talk with your husband discussing all aspects of his Mother and your relationship. You both need to reach a conclusion and then face her togather. That is the only way she will know that she has limits.

Answer 5

The avatar you got is male. If you are a lady you might consider replacing it by a correct one. Then your marriage to a baby boy makes better sense.

Answer 6

she wants her boy to remain single for the rest of his life? the only thing i think you can do, if you haven't done it yet, is to move out. she has to realize that her son is grown up and wants to have a life of his own. i don't think she will ever change what she feels towards you as long as you live there.

Answer 7

boys are momma's babies forever,they can do no wrong.Unless he cut loose alittle you are stuck dealing wih her. P.S and he does tell her everything that goes on.

Answer 8

u cud pray and swallow the grumbling and
1)u cud move out
or
2)she cud move out

Answer 9

well try to just ignore her when you can and when you're around her be as nice as you can be that'll piss her off

Answer 10

don't mind het.. its your son whome you are married to..
don't let your path cross...