how can you get two shy peolpe two talk and get comfable around each other?

Question

me and my bf are both shy when we come to talk somtimes we come up with confesations and then it goes quite again and theres nothing really to talk about i want him to become comfable around me and i want to become comfable around him so when open and just saying enything

Answer 1

honey, u re not shy, u just don't have anything to say. so read books, newspapers, watch tv - then u will have smth to discuss. u might watch movies together , or read books togather and then discuss them after. u might tell him smth what heppened with u during the day, what were u thinking, and stuff like this. u have to learn how to talk to people, it is very useful in future adult life

Answer 2

Play a game e.g
1) Where you start a story and they have to continue it.Whoever ends the story is penalised.
2) everyone has to tell a joke(something funny)
3) Discuss common topics like games.
When you are with each of them tell them an interesting thing about the other person so that theyc an find common interests in their own time.
when you are seated toegther as a group you can begin as.."Lindi palyed in really well in the last game"
when all this fails warn them that anyone who keeps quite will be penalised or punished

Answer 3

ot sure how long you guys hve been bestfrinds. But the first thing to do is just that simply be open and honest with him. Don't be afraid. If he is your bestfriend he will begin to do the same. Been in that situation many times

Answer 4

Find something you are both interested in and then do it together or discuss it that way you will learn that you have soo many things in common that when you are together you will never stop talking and time will be limited

Answer 5

start by asking him what happened at his work if you actually listen to him you can get a real conversation out of him..

Answer 6

well you sure be com fable around each other take about some he like

Answer 7

someone needs to become unshy!