i don’t want to force him to do something he is not ready to do. we are both virgins. im 18 he is 19. i believe that he doesn’t want to because he is afraid i will get pregnant. But I am on the pill and he will use a condom. so i dont know why he wont have sex with me.
is this normal
2006-12-07 20:05:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My mom was on the pill, and my dad always used a condom... and here I am... it happens...
It's a genuine fear. You have a boyfriend who is thinking ahead and into the future instead of the now. That's something to be admired.
Sex can still happen, but he has to accept the low chances of consumation and weigh them out for himself.
That, or he's just uneducated and doesn't know what a vagina is, or doesn't know the facts.
2006-12-07 20:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by bigcatbarber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is better than normal. You are right not to push, but... Girls are all over guys for doing to us exactly what you are now doing to him. It's a silent kind of pressure. Nobody should try to get someone to have sex that isn't ready. And he doesn't need a reason.
Why are you even on the pill if he is still saying no? Not that I think it's a bad idea but it could also put undue pressure on him. It means the expectation is there that one day soon..
2006-12-07 20:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm kinda interior the equivalent boat. i'm 2 mos pregnant and dumped my boyfriend, thats on condition that he has authorized subjects and a lot of diverse subjects. Do you artwork? Have your very own region or shared a residing? perhaps she's basically freaking out suited now and demands time to alter to the style new newborn entering into her existence. do not push to confusing or you're able to desire to tension her away. tell her you bypass over her and your precise here for her whilst she demands you. i know the form you think of even though if, are not getting to clingy. maximum of all do not start up a conflict between you her, and her mom. she would be waiting to think of like she has to opt for an element. you do not desire that. email her a pair of cases each week even though if, circulate into opposite too. circulate on working and doing what you do. quiet down, do not ignore the two technique you're able to desire to be there for the newborn. If or whilst she is composed of you you're able to desire to succeed.stable stable fortune
2016-12-11 04:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by trip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every one has to move at their own pace. And even though men are supposed to be sterotypically "horny" not all of them want to have sex right away. Plus maybe the both of you need to work on becoming closer before you become intamate. What it all bottoms down to, is that you need to talk to him about it. And if you dont feel comfertable about doing that then you are not ready to start having sex with each other.
2006-12-07 20:13:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's normal, he's probebly waiting for the perfect moment. If he is afraid you will get pregnant that's a good thing atleast he's thinking, most guys don't care.
2006-12-07 20:09:18 · answer #5 · answered by sara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's normal. u can't be too cautious, ur bf is a great guy coz he doesn't want to ruin your life eventhough u r 18. so, u should just wait until he feels he's ready.good luck!!
2006-12-07 20:13:13 · answer #6 · answered by Hamdi93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal! Some people regret this(I do!!!) And the longer you wait the more special it will be!!!!!! It's so hard to wait, but trust me you can and it's WONDERFUL when you do.
2006-12-07 20:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by Lesley C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SHI* YEAH!! Leave nature take its course. If U want to get off there are alot of toys out there!!
2006-12-07 20:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably not ready for it yet or he doesn't want to rush things.
2006-12-07 20:09:37 · answer #9 · answered by Joelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sara's answer is excellent. I second that emotion.
Give her the 10 pts
2006-12-07 20:11:52 · answer #10 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋