2006-12-07 19:50:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a hobby focus on something you can improve on and then find another woman man! There are too many beautiful woman out there to focusing on a relationship gone sour. Good Luck!
2006-12-07 19:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by Officer Jack Mehoff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way you can find true love with the memories of your ex cluttering your thoughts. The following steps will help you to move on.
Instructions
•STEP 1: Talk to your friends.
•STEP 2: Get clear with your ex. If there are a lot of unresolved issues involving money, possessions, etc., clear them up.
•STEP 3: Distract yourself. Movies, sightseeing, outdoor activities, games and a good book are all possibilities.
•STEP 4: Take up a new hobby or enroll in some classes.
•STEP 5: Exercise - put your mind on something new, like training for a marathon, improving your tennis game, or working on those abs.
•STEP 6: Work hard. Work can be a great distraction, especially if you feel like you're accomplishing something.
•STEP 7: Indulge yourself. Chocolates, massages, facials, shopping sprees - whatever helps make you feel good about yourself.
•STEP 8: Date other people.
Tips & Warnings
•Clean breaks are generally better. Take some time away from your ex, even if you plan to remain friends. Try not to have sex after the breakup.
•Spend time in places where you might meet interesting people, either online or in person.
•While you're upset, don't do anything you'll regret later.
2006-12-08 03:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by Christine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, the first step is admitting you've a problem (or a need that needs to be addressed), and you've clearly demonstrated that you're not shy about speaking up.
So far, so good, mate. All that's left now is either:
(a) telling her that you still love her and getting back with her,
(b) telling her that you still love her and getting over her,
(c) screaming out to the world that you're still in love with someone that doesn't reciprocate the same feelings, getting hammered at a bar, and starting new, OR
(d) same as C, just skip the bar and night of debauchery.
2006-12-08 04:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You guys must have had a great realationship. Why are you not together anymore? But believe me you will go on no matter how long it takes! You need alot of positive energy around you hang out with friends or realatives that make you laugh, or go to church you will meet new people maybe even your next love. Good luck!
2006-12-08 04:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lost love can last last a lifetime. It is hard to give up those feelings- I think it is better to just accept that you may never get over her and try to develop new feelings for someone else. Every romance is different, use that to your advantage.
2006-12-08 03:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by jaye580 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just have to remember that you do have to go on...and I don't know what happened between the two of you, but if there is a way that you can confess your feelings for her you should
2006-12-08 03:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by Lesley C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with Officer Jack on this one: Get a hobby and grow some balls!
2006-12-08 04:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet someone else. You broke up for a reason
2006-12-08 03:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just put your truth in the Lord and he will help you and give you stung to go on
2006-12-08 04:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you don't go out musch then>
2006-12-08 03:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋