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This girl and I have gone out a couple of times. She is a very friendly girl and has no problems striking up a conversation with anyone. Last semester she had told a mutual friend she had a crush on me. So now the problem is she is acting weird around me. She is not as easy going around me as she used to be. She avoids being alone with me and we don't talk nearly as often as we used to. It makes me feel like she isn't interested anymore but a friend of mine keeps trying to tell me that she is acting weird b/c she likes me...One more note---She once told me she had heard some things about me and recently has been hanging out with a girl who doesn't have much nice to say about me b/c of some stuff between her and my roommate...What is going on here?? Is she suddenly shy, no longer attracted to me, or being influenced by her new friend???

2006-12-07 19:36:54 · 9 answers · asked by confused fella 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

9 answers

she likes you and has turned shy around you. Move in for checkmate and seal the deal.

2006-12-07 19:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by sunsetconmartini 2 · 1 0

The 'mutual friend' may be the problem. She may have told her something about you that has changed her attitude. What that is could be anything - she might have said that you'd done something bad in the past, or had a tiny penis, or that she had been in love with you forever... who knows? Or she might not have said anything at all and it could just be coincidence that she changed her mind about you at that time. The best thing you can do is talk to her - let her know that you've noticed the change, ask her if there's some obstacle to dating, or something you've said or done to offend her... ask her anything but start talking openly. I know it's hard to do but you have history together so that should be a good place to start the conversation. At the end of the day it's her decision but if she's as nice as you think she is, she should be able to tell you what the problem is. One final tip: don't bad mouth her friend or any one else - keep the conversation focused on you two. Bad mouthing her friends will only make you look bad. Good luck.

2006-12-07 19:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well there bud, don't get upset but, YOU NEED TO BE THE MAN!!! If you want something to happen, initiate it! Just start it out sometime after small talk session and say, "so what's with you and me?" She'll probably say, "what, huh?" in an attempt to stall so she can gather her thoughts, and then ask again and tell her you like her and would like to go on a few more dates. Don't ask her to change back to what she was. If she goes on the dates with you, she'll open up. If she doesn't, I think it's clear that she isn't dating material and hopefully you can have a decent or friendly acquaintance

2006-12-07 19:42:33 · answer #3 · answered by bigcatbarber 2 · 0 0

she probably knows that you know about her having a crush on you and thinks you dont feel the same way and feels a little bit odd,but tries to hide it by pretending or avoiding you. If you let her know you are interested in a CLEAR manner, ie telling her straight up or just little simple hints she is sure to stop acting strange...girls act upon their emotions so she probably cant help acting the way she does around you even though she in her mind probably thinks "why do i keep doing that!"

2006-12-07 20:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

When a woman has a crush she is very vulnerable. She really likes you, or atleast the person that she thinks you are, but oftentimes when you have a crush you don't REALLY know that person. So if people say things about that person your ears perk up and you listen. However, few girls are deterred by negative comments about their ex. Girls are too curious for that, we want to know everything for our selves. I believe she is still interested but its just your job to make the moves from here. Let her know its okay to like you and that she can be comfortable around you. Good luck!

2006-12-07 19:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Oh, she is interested in you, but she is being heavily influenced by her new "friend". You have got to clear the air and find out what lies are being told about you.

2006-12-07 19:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0 0

i think she's gotten shy because of the fact that she likes you. i'd tell her you feel the same! this new friend of hers could be influencing her too but it's confirmed she likes you back so tell her the feelings are mutual

2006-12-07 19:42:45 · answer #7 · answered by sonrisa 3 · 0 0

She likes you, so she's acting nervous because she wants you to like her, and is worried that if she does something stupid that you won't like her anymore.

2006-12-07 19:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 0 0

try to confess to her your real felings!! from that you will know why she's acting weird!!!

2006-12-07 19:40:11 · answer #9 · answered by mark!!001 2 · 0 0

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