here's this very beautiful girl,at first we were very good friends and i've faleen in love w/ her so i've confess to her my real feelings!! but sad to say she didn't accept it and after that she would'nt talk to me anymore.!! few weeks later,i heard that she has a new bf which is true,so i tried to talked to her and luckyly she talked to me too and we became very good friends again!!! but still i really really love her even if i know she has a bf,but few weeks later,she broke up w/ her bf!!! and i think the reason is me coz now she's very sweet to me and i think she's in love w/ me too!!! but i don't want to court her anymore coz i'm afraid to ruin our friendship again!!! so what should ido???? will i confess to her again or just let the time decides what will ahppen to us?? what is the best thing i should do??????
2006-12-07 19:24:25 · 14 answers · asked by mark!!001 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let the time decide .......if you dont want a break- up with her again!!
2006-12-07 19:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that the first time you've confessed your feelings for her she just didn't know how to handle it, and so she may have over reacted.
Still, you have to decide for yourself wether or not you want to go for it again. If you'd rather be her lover then her friend, maybe you should ask her what her feelings are towards you. Carefully start a conversation about it.
But if you feel that there is more chance of her rejecting you again, and if you fear that to much, the whole conversation could become loaded. Thick of tension. Which isn't the best way to go about that.
It might sound corny, but you should follow your heart on this.
2006-12-07 19:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by StormyWeather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would just remain friends for now, maybe sometime in the future something will happen, the girl cannot make up her mind, and even if she accept you now, what makes you think that your'e not going to follow her X's fates?
Give her time to make up her mind and decides what she want, and then you can try again but do be carefull, don't screw up all your chances even as a friend...
2006-12-07 19:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there jes, me an indian too. even with the undeniable fact that the placement is that i'm a lill elder (23 now). so that you dated for 2 months!! ok thats an quite short time for some one to die for. in case you die , will the guy you adore sense good? received't he blame himself for this? and could this sense good about you? as well because it should be seen you do not look after your self or your spouse and children's 19 years of love, care and dedication in the route of you. what do you imagine they'll sense about your lack of life . may sense free precise !! (nicely that's what you imagine) its no longer about castism, its about being extra being concerned in the route of you . you received't sense this now because you imagine you're in love. i actually have undergone this level. felt like lack of life. and then were given a sparkling guy who loved me too an i too fell in love with him yet he nonetheless became lost and that i felt suicidal back and after often times i have been given yet another guy am in love with .!!! you won't be able to get a guy if he's not your destiny. you receives in common words YOUR guy. God has extra perfect plans for you. you're only 19 . that's the easy feeling at this AGE. merry christmas ..savor..
2016-11-24 22:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by mccay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wise to stay as friends. Let her make the move now but becareful as she just dump someone and came back to you. She can still repeat. Take my advise and just be friends for as long as it takes. Dont rush
Good Luck
2006-12-07 19:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me with my best guy friend.
He had feelings for me and I didn't feel the same way about him.I had broken up with my bf
and he was there for me...but I looked at him as my best friend nothing else..so you have to be very careful with her if you don't want to ruin your friendship again.Hang out with other girls and see what her reaction is...and only time will tel.Good Luck!! ;0)
2006-12-07 19:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by Ara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is too short for guessing games.Tell her you love her one more time. If she does not feel the same way about you then move on.There are others out there.
2006-12-07 19:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way did you leaven her along when she was with new bf and be good friends so i dint know what to tell you know
2006-12-07 19:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say but she apparently treats you like &*#@$. Just remain average friends and pursue other girls. She is not worth it.
2006-12-07 19:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by DeadmanWalks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do really believe she likes you, go for it. She already knows you like her from the first 'talk'. Take your chances and go for it, it won't hurt.
2006-12-07 19:26:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋